Hi all, I had a SAH in January 2012, this followed the worst term ever with one of my groups (I'm a sixth form college teacher) and I believe that the stress they put me through was a contributory factor in what happened. When I returned to work they continued to cause me extreme stress until it was decided that I did not have to teach them anymore. They are finishing their course this month and one of their teachers is holding a party for them I declined the invitation (from the teacher not the students). She has informed me today that I need to go in at the end of the party as they have a present for me, I don't want it and because my filter no longer works as well as it did I will not be able to not say that to them which will probably result in complaints from parents and the subsequent hassle from above. Help I don't know what to do as the teacher in question thinks I am being unreasonable.