never been so worried

[curiousgenxer]

Hello everyone. A small lesion was found in my bladder I am terrified. I have bad back and hips far 6 months. Urine stops and starts. I haven’t worked for 5 months my life has been destroyed by this. I’m finding it hard to cope. Is there any Hope this lesion could be anything other than C. Positive replies only please I can’t hope with any more horror stories. Thank you 🙏

[Letterhead]

Hi, I noticed the terror in your message and hope I might be able to help. I’m wondering who told you you had a lesion in your bladder and why they didn’t explain what sort of lesion it was? In my experience when having a cystoscopy if anything is noticed they have told me straight away and also what they are going to do about it. If we don’t get enough information then of course our mind ‘takes off’ and goes to the worst places! I’m assuming that by mentioning your hips you are afraid that IF you’ve got cancer it has already spread. I have been in similar situations and I’ve become very assertive and relentless to find out what was going on and I’m wondering if there is a way you can find out what this means to help you. Good Luck, Chris

[672530]

I can understand how you feel, when you had your flexi scope what did they tell you..its a worry for everyone who is waiting to find out..I hope things are good for you..