Lost the plot ...

[penny41]

I am sat in my car outside the doctors waiting for an emergency appointment, what do you want the appointment for the receptionist asked I HAVE LOST IT ...

I have had no sleep I am in pain and the car and run for the hills seems great, but I have no money thanks to atos appeal pending ...

My neighbours have a very loud leaky gutter bang bang bang ... It is supported living so staff don't care, I have spent all day trying to sort it ...

My son thinks he lives in a hotel, at 22 he needs to get to grips with reality...

My new partner trys his best but he is a one man mission of mess ...

Seen doctor more meds great that's their only answer arghgggggg

[julieru]

I think a few house rules are the answer like in SuperNanny. Pin them on the wall. Both son and partner can clear up after themselves and clean certain rooms, do shopping or cooking and washing. If they dont like it, they pay rent and you hire someone from that money to take the load off you.

You need them to support you, not the other way around. Show them how many pills a day you have to take to deal with their lack of respect.

Seriously, at 22, either he pays up or gets out. He should be grown up by now.

Don't let a new partner take advantage. Tell him how it is, the support you need. If he refuses, hey he's new. better to find out now he isnt going to support you through the bad times.

I know its hard to get tough, but they are causing you to be ill. If the cared one jot about you they wouldnt make you sick. Think about it.

Sorry if it sounds harsh. Love and soft hugs to you. There are people on here who WILL care and support you. Dont second best yourself, you deserve more than that

[gypsycrafter]

quite agree, i have supported my on and off for years and not he is 33 i have told him there is no more money! you have enough to cope with and i agree with julieru about your partner too! you need to concentrate on your self and get a pair of earplugs! hope you can got it sorted soft hugs xxxx

[penny41]

Thanks guys really bad day for me, son has dine some washing, partner cross but then I am but I am shattered and in pain, why is is it so hard to maintain human relationships with this fm

Have told partner I need peace and quiet and a couple of nights in my own bed on my own, but he waits for me to ask all down to me again,

The doctor was hopeless think a good chat with smaritans tonight they are great, and my emergency valium x 2

[jazher]

Penny,

Thats so sad you are having a bad time of it.

Like you when i get to a really bad point i too need peace and quiet. I cant even muster the energy up to speak and i get so annoyed if people dont leave me alone.

I hope you pick up soon, sending you big hugs penny xxxxxxxx