Period started yesterday it's been in full swing - twice this has happened now, with my first fresh transfer and now this frozen transfer, period started around day 8/9 first time and now day 10 on this try. I feel deflated I can't even make it to test day and have hope of seeing a positive😪 we have 1 more embryo frozen from our first cycle but the first 2 were the good quality ones, this one is graded fair so not got much hope💔 I had in the back of mind last week that the dreaded mothers day was coming up and how amazing it would feel to know the transfer worked and it would be the last one I had to suffer but no it wasn't ment to be, just pray that this rollercoaster ends! So disheartening being told everytime that my lining is perfect and uterus is beautiful and textbook for it to end in a negative💔
11dp5dt it's all over :( : Period... - Fertility Network UK
11dp5dt it's all over :(
Hi. So sorry to hear this,its awful. Before you go again, ensure your Fallopian tubes are patent, and no toxic fluid can leak into your womb and interfere with implantation. A hysteroscopy will check your womb out and biopsy the lining. Perhaps a blood thinner and short course of prednisolone to protect immune system sorry if all this has been done thinking of you. Diane
Thanks Diane, this is what I'm worried about with my tubes, both of them are completely blocked so I have definitely wondered if this could be the case affecting implantation, I'm on NHS so not sure if they do any of this but I'll definitely be bringing it up before next transfer x
Hi? I would enquire as they are no good to you unfortunately. Good luck. Diane
hi lovely, I’m literally in exactly the same boat. I got my negative today too, this is my 2nd frozen cycle. I feel the same way, it’s so hard when everyone says everything looks great and you feel like you’ve done everything you can for it still to fail. It’s so brutal.
Please be kind to yourself, take some time to process everything. I’m speaking to a counsellor in a couple of days to just tell her everything unfiltered. ❤️ xxx
I'm so sorry your going through this 😔💔 it really is awful, I almost feel stupid for thinking it may have worked, it's the crushing realisation that it didn't work and the fear of doing it all over again. Thank you so much, you too❤️ good idea to get it all out, definitely feels better after you do and get a good cry out also xxx
Hi, I just got my bfn for my second cycle so know exactly how you feel. It's so hard when you get your hopes up and allow yourself to think it might have worked and then have it all dashed and feel like you are back to square one. If you are interested in testing. I put a post out a couple of days ago and had some really helpful replies that might be worth looking at. Hope you are ok and please be kind to yourself xx
I am so sorry. I know the pain. And no it's not easy. Nothing i say is gonna take away your pain. But remember we need to be strong in this journey. Trust yourself and trust your team of doctors. This journey is very tough for sure but this is not the end. Cry out as much as u want to now and then get up, get strong and try again. Don't be hard on yourself. Sending you lots of hugs. Take care of yourself. 🌺🌺
Its all over
Devastation all over again 
embryo freezing day 1
All 3 Embryos Thawed! 
