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[Bee-you-tee-full]

Hi everyone, it’s been a while since I’ve been on here! So yesterday I had my 2nd embryo transfer. (First frozen embryo transfer). Our first IVF round was July last year but unfortunately during our 2 week wait my dad had a severe stroke and sadly passed away a week after our 2 week wait. (Negative BFP not that I cared by test day with everything else) Needless to say whilst I am glad to be back “in the system” so to speak there are definite mixed feelings during this 2 week wait. My last 2 week wait took a turn so the universe made me focus elsewhere so any advice on what helped people through it would be much appreciated. 😊

[SKC111]

Firstly, I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad, Ive lost my mum, it’s such a sad time 😔 and everyone’s grief is different! It’s totally understandable you have mixed feelings during this time, sending lots of love & wishing you all the best and sending baby dust! Try to schedule some things you enjoy during these 2 weeks. Sending lots of love ❤️ I’m in my 2ww now too from first DE 🤞🏼🤞🏼 for us both! Lots of love Xxx

[Bee-you-tee-full in reply to SKC111]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your mum. I wish you well with your 2 week wait. Hopefully both of us see those double lines. Take care of yourself 💕

[Chloettc2020]

So sorry to hear about your Dad ❤️. Sending lots of love & luck for your 2ww. My FET is scheduled for today, so if you need to chat during the 2ww my inbox is open ☺️ Xx

[Greenleaves1]

Sorry to hear about your dad. I'm on my tww if you need a buddy xx

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Sorry to hear about your dad . Try to keep yourself busy -watch old films reread your favourite book Give yourself a wee treat every 2/3 days such as a pamper day - buy your favourite chocolate/ magazine /flowers Eat a healthy diet - drink plenty of fluids - rest when you can Take any meds you have been given as directed

Thinking of you

Janet-Partner

[Blahblahblahxxx]

I'm so sorry about what you have gone through, the tww is tough enough without the memories yours will be bound to bring up. Do stuff that makes you happy and feel relaxed as much a possible. If you can hold out testing until your official test day I would recommend that although I know some people are serial testers. Try keep yourself busy and it really helped me to talk to others who were also on the tww from this group!!

Enjoy being pregnant and I wish you all the luck 💕