Hi everyone. Hoping for some advice here as medical professionals are pretty much leaving this decision up to me!š±
Iāve got one frozen embryo following a difficult 3 rounds of IVF over the last year. Iām about to turn 42 and have very low AMH - so I know my chances of success are low.
My scans detected a large-ish fibroid which I had follow up scans for based IVF clinic advice. Subsequent MRI showed it to be a pedunculated subserosal fibroid, measuring 7.2cm.
I donāt really get symptoms from it - maybe some mild discomfort but honestly, Iād probably assumed that to be kidneys or something before and it hasnāt really caused problems. If it wasnāt for IVF scans, Iād have no idea it was there.
The consultant has said they can remove it if I wantā¦ the ivf doctor said the same. Helpfulā¦ Itās not essential to remove it - it may well cause no issues at all, but it could grow, twist or degenerate etc.
Part of me wants to remove all possible risks from the one shot we have. But itās not a minor procedure - the consultant said it would be an open myomectomy - pretty much a C section.
Iām so torn about what to do. I donāt want to put myself through a big operation (which carries its own risks) if itās not needed, but I donāt want to end up regretting that decision if it causes problems with any potential miracle pregnancy later down the line.
They also confused me around how long Iād have to wait post op to do the embryo transfer. Consultant suggested ~6-8 weeks but Iāve read online advice saying at least 6 months! Iām not getting any youngerā¦ especially as we may need to try further rounds of IVF still. The IVF clinic couldnāt offer any advice on it.
I donāt know where else to go for advice as the experts donāt seem to want to advise me in either direction, and Iām so confused. Iāve got the myomectomy booked soon and am desperately trying to decide if I should go ahead or cancel.
Anyone been in a similar position? Had experience of this? What did you do? Thank you for any responses š