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I did my first round of IVF last year and unfortunately it didn’t work.

It’s been about a year now and I still need to do my second round.

I have been putting it off I think it’s to do with the fact that if it doesn’t work I have to deal with that feeling of disappointment and wondering why.

I’m also understanding that everyone’s journey is different and the blessings we receive come at the time we least expect it.

It’s hard being a women in these circumstances and mostly all of my friends are Mums and Great Mums to might I add.

But then I’m also appreciative of the journey I am on at the moment.

Maybe I’m living in a bubble but I’ve tried to take the pressure off of myself because life is still happening around me and just focus on the present. But every now and again when Mother Nature arrives you think when will it happen for me.

Be kind to yourself ladies our bodies go through so much, We will all get there. ❤️

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You're not alone ❤️

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Soulgirl_23 in reply toSwimming87

❤️❤️

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Endowarrior36

I can relate to this a lot. I hope younare OK xx

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Soulgirl_23 in reply toEndowarrior36

Hope you’re too ❤️

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Endowarrior36 in reply toSoulgirl_23

Thank you so much. I'm in the middle of our second ivf cycle. The whole thing is just a mad journey isn't it. Sending a big hug and well wishes xx

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Soulgirl_23 in reply toEndowarrior36

Wishing you all the best on your second IVF cycle, and it definitely is a mad journey. Thank you means a lot and same for you ❤️ xx

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Thinking of you - this can be a very stressful journey Hope you have people around you for support Might be an idea to join a support group near you Please take a look at our website fertilitynetworkuk.org "Access Support" for further information

Take care

Janet-Partner

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Soulgirl_23 in reply toJA-fnuk

Thank you for the message, I appreciate it, I have good support system for sure. But it’s nice to be able to speak to others on here who understand ❤️ I will check out the website thank you 🙂

You take care also x

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