Tested 7dpt5ft

[Jam1111111]

Caved and tested today and it negative.Really thought it was going to be positive.

I know it's early but just felt it would be positive, cramping, tiredness, vivid dreams, feeling nauseous.

I know the the hormone drugs can give you those symptoms but just felt this one was different.

1st transfer -miscarriage

2nd and 3rd - negative but my symptoms has disappeared by day 3 so was expecting that.

I know it early but not many people understand the mental toll! Just seeking a chat or thoughts

Official teat date is 7th. I just thought if I ca. Prepare myself for a negative result rather that like one big let down at the end of that makes sense x

[Sarah770]

that’s fine; next transfer! One cannot have any symptoms after a transfer: we test for beta hcg as early as 10 days post transfer and even if implantation occurs the day after the transfers, the quantities of beta generated by the embryo are so small that your body cannot notice

[Jam1111111 in reply to Sarah770]

I know, just so frustrating!

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Still early for testing - try to keep busy - reading - walking - watching old films Make sure having a healthy diet and drinking plenty of fluids Remember to take any meds you were given as directed

Take care

Janet-Partner

[Jam1111111 in reply to JA-fnuk]

I definitely won't stop the medication and I will test again on the actual date.

I know its early I was so hopefully as the symptoms seemed so strong this time.

It's hard alway just trying to find a little bit of hope

X

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Keep hope alive - your day will come

Janet

[Hopeful_88]

Hi Jam1111111 , so sorry you tested negative i completely understand the mental toll, it is on your mind 24/7 and weighs heavily. It's so tempting to test early and I understand what you mean about preparing yourself for the let down.

I am only 2 days apart from you, my OTD is 9th October. I haven't tested yet but I have a bad feeling it hasnt worked - im finding it hard to stay positive when it failed the last time! I hope that it's a case of you testing too soon and that the HCG levels could be too low yet.

Hope you're coping OK and looking after yourself. sending lots of positivity X

[Jam1111111 in reply to Hopeful_88]

Thank you for your message.

I know it's hard to keep postive isn't it, I was doing so well not to over think it then today boom.. that's all I can think about!

I'm wishing the best for you too!

X

[Jam1111111 in reply to Hopeful_88]

Also just seen you had treatment in Prague too!

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Jam1111111]

It really is, it feels like the more you try not to think about it, the harder it is. I'm trying to plan my next steps assuming this hasn't worked, and it's helping me a bit (I think!). Also I have heard many times of people having no symptoms when they are pregnant, so don't count yourself out yet! Thank you so much x

No way, you went to Prague too? What are the odds! Was it your first time? How did you find the experience? It was the first time for us, I was so hoping to get several embryos in the bank and was disappointed to get one (plus one transferred), I am not sure I'd go back to the same clinic again because of the outcome (although I was happy with everything else) x

[Jam1111111 in reply to Hopeful_88]

Il drop you a little private message x