Embryo number 3 - 2WW

[KHRAM]

Embryo number 3 transferred on Thursday, feeling so positive but sometimes can’t help thinking it will fail again and how can I go through it again.

anyone one else in 2WW?

[Livinginoz]

I’m not in TWW yet but I have my transfer on Tuesday next week. Just wanted to say I’m thinking of you! X

[KHRAM in reply to Livinginoz]

Thank you x

Good luck with your transfer next week thinking of you too xxx

[MiniCeeCee]

best of luck! I’ve got my 3rd transfer in a couple of months, can’t work out if they’re getting harder or easier each time! But rooting for you either way! X

[KHRAM]

thank you x same to you xx

[minny_223]

Wishing you every success- fingers firmly crossed for you xx

[Zebraant]

Hi. I had my transfer on Thursday as well. 5th try. Feeling a bit like you at the moment xx

[KHRAM in reply to Zebraant]

Sending lots of luck and baby dust xxx

[Lou1616]

hi there, I’m on my 2WW. My transfer was on Wednesday. I’m not feeling very confident. No symptoms yet. Hope your all doing well 🙏 x

[KHRAM in reply to Lou1616]

All we can do it’s keep being positive and don’t give up xxx

[Hopewhite]

hi lovely , I just wanted to wish you all the best of luck ! Try not to focus too much on the symptoms as most of those are caused by the progesterone, also a lot of women don’t get any ! I also had my fresh transfer this Wednesday with our only embryo (4th try) , I’m trying to remain positive and take one day at a time! Try to keep yourself busy and do nice things that you enjoy to keep yourself positive x

[KHRAM in reply to Hopewhite]

Thank you, I’m trying to keep busy and not think about it but it’s hard cause of all the medications and injections, I just hope this time I’m lucky and the little one sticks.

Sending you all the luck and baby dust hope we all get the BFP 🤞🏽xxx

[Hopewhite in reply to KHRAM]

Hi lovely thank you! We all deserve good news , hopefully it will all be worth it and one day we’ll even forget about all the things we had to do to get our babies xx

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Hopewhite]

Hi Hopewhite wishing you all the luck and hope you get that positive! I'm in the 2WW too (my first), so hard to keep distracted, I'm only 2 days in x

[Hopewhite in reply to Hopeful_88]

Thank you lovely, same for you ! I hope you’re first time lucky ! Just try to do nice things after work to relax and get distracted, and go for little walks in the day if you start to feel anxious , hopefully time will fly by for you and you’ll get wonderful news soon xx

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Hopewhite]

Thank you so much! Thanks for the tips as well, that's really helpful the little walks through the day sounds like a good plan too. Fingers crossed for us, I hope you get the best news soon too 🤞 xxx

[Fitzrovia91]

I had my transfer on Monday and it’s embryo number 3 for me also I’m with you on the debilitating fear and anxiety. I stayed in bed Monday and Tuesday and have been out and about since and Iv found walking helps me immensely. Giving myself positive morning affirmations which feels odd and funny haha but does wonders. Hope this journey goes amazing for you x

[KHRAM in reply to Fitzrovia91]

Yeah walking definitely helps, I went to a concert yesterday with my husband which I nearly didn’t go it was nice but I’m worried now cause I was standing a lot and got abit tired now feeling more anxious it will have a negative affect 😣

I wish you all the luck and send you positive thoughts xxx

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Fitzrovia91]

Hi Fitzrovia91 wishing you all the best! I'm glad you've found things to help, hope you get that positive. I'm in the 2WW too (2 days in) and it's so hard to keep the mind distracted

[Fitzrovia91 in reply to Hopeful_88]

It’s very hard I will be thinking of you x

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Fitzrovia91]

Thanks Fitzrovia91 , there is some comfort in knowing we are not alone, I will be thinking of you too x

[IVFnewbie1]

I am in the middle of the 2WW-had my transfer Monday. No symptoms and also trying not to get my hopes up. Keeping everything crossed 🤞🏼 xxx

[KHRAM in reply to IVFnewbie1]

Good luck xx we got this xx

[Slm123-]

hey, I had my 3rd transfer Thursday too. Barely any symptoms but reminding myself that the symptoms aren’t always reliable anyway as my last transfer failed and I had all the common symptoms which completely mis-lead me to believe it had worked when it hadn’t. I always find 1st few days after transfer I’m really positive and then I suddenly slip into a negative state of mind after. Went for a weekend away this weekend with my 4 year old and partner and I’m now stressing because iv not eaten the best healthy meals 🙄. I hope you’re ok and managing to stay busy! Sending you lots of luck xx

[KHRAM in reply to Slm123-]

Its so hard not too worry and not feel it hasn’t worked but we all got this and I hope all of us get the positive results xxx 🤞🏽

[Slm123- in reply to KHRAM]

I know. It’s such a hard time the 2ww isn’t it. When is your OTD? X

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Slm123-]

Hey Slm123- wishing you all the luck! I had my first transfer (frozen) on Friday, I also found that I was really positive to begin with and already I am starting to feel like it hasn't worked. I've had no symptoms, I've had a cold and not slept well, so I'm worrying it's affected the transfer - a bit like you worrying about your diet might! I'm sure there's not much we can do that would intervene with the natural process so I hope you're not worrying too much. We are also away for a few days and it's definitely helping. Hope all goes well for you and you get that positive! X

[Slm123- in reply to Hopeful_88]

Hey, Hopeful_88 thank you, same goes to you. I’m really trying so hard this time not fixate on the symptoms or lack of as iv been tricked into thinking it has worked previously with all the common signs and symptoms but it failed. The time before that I had no symptoms and it failed too so you just really don’t know until your OTD 😞. I hope you’re looking after yourself and getting lots of rest whilst you’re away. I think it’s quite common at transfer stage to feel run down after all the stress but try not to worry, I don’t think having a cold willl make any difference, as you said, there’s Not much we can do and just need to carry on as normal as possible. Sending you lots of positivity today and thinking of you xx

[Hopeful_88 in reply to Slm123-]

Hey Slm123- thank you so much for your kind words and advice, it's so helpful and much appreciated. I'm still feeling run down with a cough and congestion but thankfully managing to rest, so glad I booked time off work. How are you getting on? I hope you've managed to rest and take care of yourself! When is your OTD? Hope you don't have much longer to wait xxx

[Slm123- in reply to Hopeful_88]

Ah you’re welcome 🥰. I hope you enjoyed your time away. How you feeling today?? Iv had a really busy week work wise so time is actually going fast for me but my OTD isn’t until Thursday so just under another week to go (feel like this will drag) In terms of symptoms my boobs are quite tender and iv had the odd headache and my patience is very thin but apart from that I feel pretty normal in myself. Trying to stay distracted as best as I can. I’m terrified about testing again. I just don’t think il cope very well if it’s negative and I’m frightened about that! Is your OTD on Monday? If so, you don’t have long to wait now. I hope you have some nice plans on the weekend and time goes quickly for you xx

[KHRAM]

it’s so difficult and this time I’m getting so many side effects my mood is awful I literally want to kill someone lol feel sick all the time and awful headaches. OTD is Monday 8th July 😣😫

[Hopeful_88]

Hi KHRAM im in my 2WW too and we have the same OTD! Although I've had many 2WW that have never ended in a positive after many years, this is the first embryo transfer for me. We have booked this week off work and are stopping in a remote Airbnb (plus the dog) to try and give us something positive to do, but it's so hard. I've got a cold and barely slept last night which I'm worrying about affecting things and haven't had any symptoms (yet).How are you doing today? I hope you're feeling a bit better, sounds like you're really going through it, wishing all positive things for you and hope this is your time 🤞

[KHRAM]

Well done for booking the trip it will definitely help to keep your mind off things and being in nature it really helps.

I’m not doing great today made a mistake and tested this afternoon not even in the morning and now I have lost hope obviously test being negative! But not gone test anymore until Monday and I’m trying to forget about it whatever will be will be just can’t go through the emotions again. I’m so tired 😔

[Hopeful_88 in reply to KHRAM]

KHRAM I'm so sorry to hear you're not doing great, I can imagine that would make you feel rubbish from what I've read on message boards most people are negative at this stage, the embryo needs time to start making HCG after implanting which I think is normally a few more days along! So that's a good idea not to think about it any more

You poor thing are you off work or still working? I hope you're managing to relax and heal. It's such a tough thing to go through.

Sending lots of strength and healing vibes your way, you've got this x

[Slm123- in reply to KHRAM]

Hi KHRAM im so sorry to hear you’re not doing very good. It’s really such an emotional rollercoaster isn’t it 😞.

It’s so hard not to test so don’t beat yourself up.. there’s definitely still hope as it’s still very early and chances are the HGC levels are too low to detect at this stage. Try & move on now and fingers crossed for your OTD 🤞🏻.

Take some time to relax and do things you enjoy doing to try and distract the mind. Iv been going for walks every evening which has really helped and I’m trying to get to bed early so my mind isn’t on over drive!!

Sending lots of positivity your way and will be thinking of you. Xx

[KHRAM]

thank you so much for your words of positivity SIm123

I’m going to go to my exercise class today and try and forget about for now and definitely walking is a good idea.

Will be thinking of you too xx