Hi,
We have been through 3 rounds of IVF, 2 at home in the UK and 1 abroad in Greece. Each time we have had good results from pre tests (my wife even had PLP carried out along with an asymptomatic infection treated in me in round 3) but our embryos have never reached past day 3 or stopped growing at day 4.
We have been told it’s most likely a sperm issue so we have arranged for a chromosome test to be carried out to be sure. They also haven’t ruled out an egg issue too.
At the moment we don’t know what to think or do, with no real options left other than potentially using donor in some way shape or form but we would struggle to reconcile that reality, especially me.
I’m not really asking anything from this post, I feel I just needed to write something down as we aren’t telling family or friends that this may be our reality. We are making some positive changes to our lifestyle with regards to diet to lower our BMI (we don’t smoke or drink) and are quite active but for me that’s more to allow myself control over my responses and for something to concentrate on.
Thanks for reading, any positive advice at this point is greatly appreciated.