9dpt Feeling Deflated

[Thierry101]

Morning ladies, I’ve woken up this morning feeling super de-flated and totally fed up. I had my third transfer on 16/04 and I have 0 symptoms and now starting to question if it’s worked. I know this is normal and up until this point I’ve felt pretty calm but I’m just desperate to know! Not sure what the point in this post is really - just to rant! Thanks.

[HollyT7]

the most amazing things come to us unexpected. I thought that I was out with my second ivf bubby! Not helped by a negative test! But he will be two this year. Sit tight, take each day by the hour, it won’t be long now xxxx

[Thierry101 in reply to HollyT7]

Oh wow, when did you get the negative test? I’m really hoping so, after having two failed cycles + being on the third all since November I think it’s all catching up with me. Not too long like you said! X

[HollyT7 in reply to Thierry101]

I can’t remember how many days but it was later than I got my bfp with our first and second bfp, then even after I got a bfp I got a dodgy test and thought it was fading like our first. What a rollercoaster this all is hey!

I know it takes it toll, but you will keep on giving, even when you think there’s nothing left. There’s nothing to say this time isn’t your time, your one step closer regardless. Rooting for you! ❤️

[Sams25]

I too thought this and drove myself crazy. I got a positive 8dpt. I am 15dpt now and still no symptoms except tiredness.

All my previous cycles with symptoms were BFN. Stay positive! When is your beta?

[Thierry101 in reply to Sams25]

That’s really good to know, this forum is really great but people seem to be having such major symptoms and I have nothing so it’s making me question everything 😂 my OTD is Sunday, if I make it to then. If positive then I’ll get next steps from my clinic, never got that far yet x

[Sams25 in reply to Thierry101]

This is my first time too after 5+years of trying everything! This forums helped a lot!

I honestly thought I was out and totally surprised with the positive beta. I am now reading more about this and all the symptoms are from the medicines. So hang in there. According to me no symptoms is the right symptom to have (for many of us 😁).

[Thierry101 in reply to Sams25]

And we are all on different medication so everyone will respond differently- makes you go absolutely mental doesn’t it 😂 huge congratulations on your BFP, so exciting! X

[Sams25 in reply to Thierry101]

Thank you ❤️. It’s still hard to believe !

This is a very anxiety laden process. And there are so many more things to face that I have no idea about yet. You are 5days behind me I think. So we are almost buddies in this 😁.

All the best for Sunday and keep me posted!

[BabyDust23]

Hi Thierry101, I am currently 8dp6dt. I had a bad day yesterday just feeling so overwhelmed, anxious and emotional, but had also felt quite calm up until then. This journey is such a rollercoaster but just know you’re not alone. Tomorrow is a new day, and also another day closer to OTD.

Fingers crossed you get your BFP 🤞🏼xx

[Thierry101]

yesterday on day 8 was the day I started to wobble so we are very similar. You’re right, such a rollercoaster + so expected really, we are going through a lot. Thank you, wishing you lots of luck too xx