Test day tomorrow

[Lemons1986]

Hi everyone it’s test day tomorrow. Feel like I’ve posted so much it’s been such a journey . I’ve lost all symptoms and had low progesterone on Monday and was given lubion on top of cyclogest for the remainder of the week.

I am dreading it . I know it’s going to be a negative and my moods are horrendous the last two days I’ve been raging and it’s horrid . I assume this is the progesterone.

even tho I know I have to confirm with the test I feel sick to my stomach . I had one lot of 4 days post transfer and other then sore inflated boobs and bloating nothing . And now none of those symptoms remain and I just have what I feel is raging anger like pms almost . Feel so defeated .

[Millbanks]

Hello lovely,

Sorry to hear you're feeling rubbish - the hormones are horrendous coupled with the desire for it to work.... exhausting.

But please don't count yourself out yet though. Symptoms come and go even in the 2ww because your body gets used to the meds. If it were a natural pregnancy it would be very unlikely that you'd have symptoms yet anyway.

xx

[Lemons1986 in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you for being so optimistic. I think since the nurse said my progesterone is low it was 15.4 and altho natural pregnancy that would be fine she said it should be 25 and up with a fresh cycle .

I had some red spotting 4 days post transfer literally when I wiped once and that was all never happened the rest of the day or since .

But since the lubion which I couldn’t get until Tuesday I’ve been so angry .

I’m so desperate to test and get it over with but also I know I’m going to break apart .

[Millbanks in reply to Lemons1986]

Spotting can be a good sign - especially on day 4.

I was obsessed with boob pain during my transfers - and on the one that worked they never really did anything. I barely had any symptoms.

You've got this xx

[Lemons1986 in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you I have been a crying mess for the last day xx

[Millbanks in reply to Lemons1986]

It's so hard - so so hard.

Sending a big hug xx

[MultiMagpie]

I really hope it's good news for you -I'm in the same boat, I got my 5 day blastocyst implanted on the 13th, so I cant do my blood test until Monday. I too had symptoms; aching womb, slight back pain - it's all gone, no symptoms left. No boob pain at all which is concerning.

However, we're not out the running yet. I see loads of people why faded symptoms still getting their BFP - so fingers crossed we do too.

[Lemons1986 in reply to MultiMagpie]

Hi Oh wow Mine was a 5 day too and was the 14th and they have asked me to test Friday . Clinic is the Lister and said it is two weeks after egg retrieval which was 9th Feb . I am just not hopeful any more I even asked the nurse to level with me on Monday as she was trying to be postive but I could tell they were concerned. I knew it may not work . I just guess there is always a tiny bit of hope

[MultiMagpie in reply to Lemons1986]

Is this your first go? Was it a frozen or a fresh?

[Lemons1986 in reply to MultiMagpie]

This is my first round and Fresh ICSI we have been trying for 2.5 years . I have two Frosties 5ab and 4ab waiting to see if these are viable after testing . How about you?

[MultiMagpie in reply to Lemons1986]

We had ICSI in December and put a fresh 5AB in before xmas, but it failed - my HCG was only 9. I had two more embies left, which they froze, and they've just put a frozen 5AB in. If this one fails, my last frozen embie is a 4BB. I myself am an IVF baby, and my mum had 2 IVF babies and it worked first time for both, so I was so sure the first round was going to work. As it didn't, it's deflated me for this round too. I know we shouldn't give up til test day, but it's hard x

[Lemons1986 in reply to MultiMagpie]

I am so sorry to hear the first round did not work. I am hopeful that your second round may work! I have heard that a frozen one is more likely to work. Did you have testing? I chose to have my two tested not had the results yet. It is so hard isn't it. I have been so strong , stronger then I thought I would be but now I am falling apart. I have never seen a postive pregancy test and although i told myself this was unlikely to work some hope bloomed. xx

[MiniMe23]

Got everything crossed for you today x

[Lemons1986 in reply to MiniMe23]

Sadly it was BFN xx

[MiniMe23 in reply to Lemons1986]

I’m so sorry, I know that feeling too well. Be kind to yourself though. There really are no guarantees in this IVF game.

Hope you have support around you. Sending lots of love and strength xx

[Corchi]

sending a massive hug. It’s so heart breaking. I’m so sorry. Sending courage and strength for this difficult time 🌈

[Lemons1986]

Thank you . They are keeping me on meds until Sunday then a double check negative. I will then call Monday to talk how I move on from here .

[MultiMagpie]

I was thinking about you most of today and hoping that at least one of us gets a BFP. I'm so sorry - that's so gutting. I'm not looking forward to my test on Monday either.

Sending you the strength to keep going, and to find that next plan with the doctor - lets hope they find a new way to do your treatment so that you get that BFP xx

[Lemons1986 in reply to MultiMagpie]

I’m sending you love and hope I really hope you get your BFP. I have to stay on meds and test again Sunday but I know it’ll be negative . Fingers crossed I get my frozen embryo test results back and they are ok . Wishing you all the best and will look out for your update xx

[MultiMagpie in reply to Lemons1986]

I'm sending you love and hope too. I'm sending positive vibes to your wee frozen embies. And yes, I'll keep you updated and I'll look out for your updates too xx