Day before OTD!! 😟

[KirstyC90]

Hey everyone,

I don’t feel pregnant! Last time was our first cycle and before I’ve always been able to predict that I’m pregnant. It was a chemical pregnancy sadly, but this time I don’t feel a thing!

I’ve had symptoms such as sore breasts (which have gone down! And feel less full 😱) tiny bit of nausea and I have been super tired. I also had a bad cramp yesterday. All of which could be put down to my progesterone pessaries and crinone!

Help!! I’m not feeling like it’s going to be good news! I don’t feel anything!! And we had two embies transferred! X

[Dody2019]

I can imagine how hard it is to just think that you are few hours away from the definite answer to all your concerns.I would suggest you take it easy and try doing something different; may be call a friend to have lunch with you or go shopping. Good luck dear, I will be soon in this situation

[KirstyC90 in reply to Dody2019]

Thank you 😊 x

[KirstyC90 in reply to Dody2019]

Good luck for when it’s your turn too! Xx

[Novice_knitter]

Oh hun!! Hang in there - it’s not over till you really know so stick with it. Wishing you the best of luck for tomorrow.

I scrolled so many old posts from people during my 2ww’s and quickly learned that people with BFP’s often had very different symptoms for different pregnancies. Add in the progesterone etc and I really don’t think there’s any way you can be sure. Thinking of you and so hoping to hear good news from you tomorrow xxx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Thank you! I’m so worried about doing it but I have to find out! I’m going to get a first response as well as use clinic one! X

[Novice_knitter in reply to KirstyC90]

I totally get it - it’s like - can I just stay in this uncertain yet hopeful place please?!! (The more tests the better for sure! 😂) xx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Novice_knitter]

I know the feeling! It’s hard because like you say you’re in the hopeful place but testing tells you for sure 😟 xxx

[Novice_knitter in reply to KirstyC90]

🙏🙏🙏

[Novice_knitter]

If I could I’d send you a meme with a hug in it! Xx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Aw thank you!! Are you going through IVF too? Xx

[Novice_knitter in reply to KirstyC90]

I’ve had two cycles and got my first BFP with my second cycle - so am familiar with the 2ww feeling and getting the BFN as well as the BFP. I can’t imagine how hard your chemical pregnancy must have been...

I’m 20 weeks tomorrow so it’s all gone very well since my BFP. Still try to come on here and be supportive - it’s such a hard process xxx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Novice_knitter]

Aw wow congratulations on being 20 weeks! That’s amazing! Yeah my first cycle was a chemical I’m just worried my body can’t accept embies but I had an ectopic pregnancy up to 7 weeks and even though it was in the wrong place my body let it stay! So hopefully it isn’t me! Xx

[Novice_knitter in reply to KirstyC90]

I’m sure it’s not you with that history - hopefully one (or both) of these two will stick 🙏 My embies were better quality second time round - tolerated the drug regimen better too - hopefully will be the same for you xxx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Novice_knitter]

I hope so xx

[Sexy376]

Keep positive you only got a day to go hun xx

[KirstyC90 in reply to Sexy376]

Thank you xx

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In the 3 times I’ve been pregnant I have never known until I tested! First was my son whose now 20, second was a chemical pregnancy & third well I’m 39 weeks + 5 days with a little girl. There really is no way of knowing unfortunately pms vs early pregnancy symptoms are so very similar. I even had cramping 12 days post ovulation with this pregnancy & was convinced that my period was on its way! Cramping isn’t always a bad sign sometimes it’s implantation.

Sorry for your chemical pregnancy, most women will go on to have a healthy baby after a loss. And so will you 🙂

It is difficult to be hopeful when you’ve seen countless negative tests over the years, but I really hope tomorrow will bring you good news. Keeping everything crossed for you ❤️xoxo

[KirstyC90 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for such a lovely reply! I’m so hopeful that this will be our time xx