6dp5dt BFN - am I out?

[Minnie92]

Me again 😵‍💫 so what I thought was a faint bfp yesterday was actually an evaporation line, very stark white bfn this morning at day 6.

Anyone got a positive from this day onwards after negatives? I feel like my period is coming - sharp ovary pains, lower back pain, cramping, sore boobs. My natural period would be due tomorrow but I’m on progesterone so that will probably delay it.

I guess I’m looking for some reassurance that there is still hope and for anyone to reply who has been in or is in a similar situation to stop me loosing my mind completely.

sending baby dust and love to everyone going through this shit show too ✨✨✨✨

[Mrs_MT]

Not me personally but I’ve read many stories on here where BFP didn’t happen until the night before OTD. Implantation can happen late. So don’t give up just yet, and if you can - try test on OTD. I’m having period like cramps today too *sigh*. But AF is not here yet for either of us, so we are still in the game. Hope you find your BFP Minnie x

[Minnie92 in reply to Mrs_MT]

Thank you, Iv had 2 transfers and both strong bfp by day 7, finding it hard not to compare. Hoping these pains I’m having are implantation and it’s just a day or 2 behind the usual. What day post transfer are you?

Xx

[Mrs_MT in reply to Minnie92]

I am now 9dp3dt, test day is on 31/1. I know, so hard not to compare to previous rounds. I had a BFP on my first round, and I had implantation bleed on day 8 post transfer. No bleed for me yesterday so it is hard not to feel like it is over for us xx

[Minnie92 in reply to Mrs_MT]

I’m finding not comparing the hardest part tbh. Along with the very white negative tests, I’m my own worst enemy tho because I’m testing daily but Iv tried not testing and I end up caving in the afternoon so I might aswell just test in the morning for an accurate result! Have you tested or waiting until otd? Xx

[Mrs_MT in reply to Minnie92]

I’ve managed to hold off by having no pregnancy tests in the house! I’m tempted but I just know that whatever result I get before OTD I will be stressing. If it’s BFN, I’ll be heartbroken. If it’s BFP, I’ll worry about line progression. So to play it safe, I just stick to OTD. Today I have absolutely no symptoms, but no period either. Two more days until OTD…!!

[Minnie92 in reply to Mrs_MT]

Hats off to you for waiting til OTD I genuinely wish I had your will power! Not long to go now 🙏🏼 no period is good, and no symptoms is also fine too! At this point it’s hard to distinguish pregnancy, medication or period symptoms anyway isn’t it X

[Natasha2012]

I’m slightly in front at 9dp5dt but I totally get it ! Crazy Evap lines at 7dp5dt and then negative yesterday and today . Brown discharge today and basically just feel like complete rubbish ! No advice but just wanted you to know you aren’t the only one being driven completely mad 😩 xxx

[Minnie92 in reply to Natasha2012]

Honestly I’m so glad I’m not the only one going insane but equally sorry you’re also feeling like this 😢 when is OTD? Are you testing daily too?xx

[Natasha2012]

Wednesday is my otd . I honestly just want it to hurry up so I can start my next cycle . Medicated fet has been really hard. I’m having bad period cramps, tingly boobs you name it I have had it as symptom , feel like it’s only Cyclogest that’s keeping everything at bay . When’s yours ? Just want to get off this emotional rollercoaster but can’t ❤️ xxx

[Minnie92 in reply to Natasha2012]

You sounds exactly like me with the pains and cramping, tingly boobs - although tingly boobs only started last night. Maybe we both got late implanters 🙏🏼 It’s so hard to stay positive isn’t it. Mines next Sunday xx

[Natasha2012 in reply to Minnie92]

I hope so . I’m not testing now til Wednesday. Did you have a medicated cycle ? Sending you lots of positive energy . I have read frozen embryos can sometimes implant really late ? X

[Minnie92 in reply to Natasha2012]

Yeh I’m on estrogen patches and progesterone pessaries. Iv read that also, I’m finding the positive stories online reassuring and getting me through each day x sending you positivity also x

[HollyT7]

are you out…are you joking missy!!!! You’re only on day 6! I tested positive way early with my first, but I certainly didn’t with my second!

[Minnie92 in reply to HollyT7]

Wish I was joking 🤣 I tested early with my first and second so this I why I’m comparing 😭 what days did you test positive with yours? X

[BearPanda]

My clinic only wants BetaHCG 48h apart as a pregnancy indicator, so during the last transfer I did my first Beta the morning of 12dp5dt and got 43 (positive). I was so overjoyed I did a home test that evening to have a souvenir - BFN lol. I did my second which came back over 300 so progressing really strong; I think only started seeing the faintest line a day after the first test and a definite yes 14dp5dt. I think home tests are not the most accurate things. Honestly, at least in my case (maybe my urin is too watery.....) I wouldn't use a home test as an indicator, especially not that early on. Good luck with your test!!!

[Minnie92 in reply to BearPanda]

Wow that’s crazy but I guess if the hcg is low then the test won’t pick it up but that must’ve been confusing! My clinic don’t do bloods we just ring on the day to tell them the result. Iv tested negative again this morning on day 7. Woke up feeling really sick and gagged when I smelt some food in the fridge, it’s just one big mind f**k isn’t it!

[BearPanda in reply to Minnie92]

Ah, that is so confusing indeed! As much as I feel sorry that your were queasy - yay how exciting!!! You are right; even though my test said it detects anything above 25, it clearly didn't. I think it also takes a good few days after implantation for the BetaHCG to surge and from memory production only starts from day 7 after transfer. I recon this is why clinics want us to wait a couple of weeks. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you!!!

[Minnie92 in reply to BearPanda]

That’s true if it only implanted yesterday there wouldn’t be enough until next couple of days. First transfer I tested positive on day 7 and second transfer it was day 5 so just constantly comparing xx

[Christianbaby]

Definitely not out yet. Could be too early. Crossing fingers for you and hope it works out for the best. xx

[Minnie92 in reply to Christianbaby]

Thank you hoping it’s just taking a little longer to get cosy in there xx

[Pompeiiiii]

I tested negative on 6 and 7dpt but on 9dpt I got my BFP you’re not out yet.

[Minnie92 in reply to Pompeiiiii]

Thank you, bfn this morning at day 7 so trying to stay hopeful x

[Booda21]

I’m 6dp5dt today and also going out of my mind. I tested last night and bfn. Super early I know. But I have had zero symptoms. Apart from after my progesterone shot on Friday night I woke up with more sore boobs and was hopeful, but they started to ease off again by that evening. I have had no cramps at all. I’ve had so many transfers I’m convinced this is also a negative. I really hope you do get a bfp. But I’m so sorry if you don’t. What did your clinic say about your bfn on day 7? Big hugs xx

[Minnie92 in reply to Booda21]

These BFNs are horrendous, I’m sorry you’re also going through the same. My OTD isn’t until Sunday so nothing I can do but hope. Sending positivity your way ✨ will you keep testing? X

[Booda21 in reply to Minnie92]

Aren’t they just. Yeah I tested about lunchtime and another bfn at 6dp5dt. I’m pretty much 100% that it hasn’t worked. But feel like I can’t stop meds yet just on the off chance. All they’re doing is making me have major outbreaks and angry outbursts haha. I could take it if that was also supporting a pregnancy. But I think I’m out. Keeping it all crossed for both of us, my OTD is Saturday. Wishing you all the luck in the world 🤞xx

[WaitingforGabriel]

Too early to test!

[Minnie92 in reply to WaitingforGabriel]

Here’s hoping 🙏🏼✨

[HollyT7]

your one day closer to Otd, put the sticks away and have a rest for the next 48 hours ❤️ think of that babe getting comfy!!!

[Dorekhani]

HiI did test on day 5 of transfer and got bfn then I scared and didn't do u till otd that comes positive so hang on still there is hope don't even touch test before otd. Otd will bring good news for u🤞

[Momlife14]

update ? Did you get positive ?

[Minnie92 in reply to Momlife14]

Unfortunately not x