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OTD monday, going crazy overhere

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i feel i have so much stress and anxiety, the whole waiting game is soo hard. Im really hoping its lucky nr 12 for us. I m not sleeping well and my emotions are taking over 🤣 then i feel stressed and guilty for feeling stressed and it affecting our results lol

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StarsAllAround

Sorry your feeling this way, don't be hard on yourself. Try and find something to take your mind off it. Try a new hobby, watch a box set etc. Be kind to yourself and give yourself little treats. Plan nice things to do with your partner. Hang in there xx

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Chantysal in reply to StarsAllAround

thank u so much im going to try to stay busy and maybe do some yoga to calm my nerves

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Trying6years

I am beginning to feel the same as I am finding it hard to sleep - I really think a lack of sleep makes everything so much worse! I have been really negative these past couple of days just sure that it has not worked.. the 2ww is torture but hang in there, you are not alone!x

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Chantysal in reply to Trying6years

i hope we both get bfp ukh i find everything easy compared to these two weeks 🤪

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Rol81

I hope you get your positive result. The 2 WW is torture. Hang in there 🤞🤞🤞

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Chantysal in reply to Rol81

thank you im trying to hang in there 🥹

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Rol81 in reply to Chantysal

it’s really tough…just gotta try get through one day at a time . But it’s sooo tough . Wishing you so much luck ☘️

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Noahsmummy2018

Same here - otd is Tuesday and I'm going out of my mind! Really wanting to test 😫 so hard isn't it. X

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Chantysal in reply to Noahsmummy2018

soo harddd and on top of it i had some oink spotting. Iv read its normal but ulkkk to add to the stress

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Axel131

Hi Chantysal, I know how stressful the TWW is, I've had a lot of them! One thing that some people find useful is Tapping. You may or may not be familiar with it but it's a ten minute routine where you tap on several points on your face/body while repeating statements that calm your anxiety and can work for lots of different things. The idea is that it rewires your brain/thinking patterns to stop the anxiety or other things you're experiencing. The Tapping Solution is an app that I've used that is free for some of these so you can try it and see it's for you or not. What I liked about it is that they have a pregnancy and IVF section on it which has one session called 'Stressed about being stressed' which I did smile at because we all get what that one is like. Hoping this one is the one for you!

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Chantysal in reply to Axel131

stressed about being stressed thats soo acurate . I didnt know about this thank you for sharing it Going to try it out 🤗

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Redsequin

Hi lovely. I am quite possibly the world’s least zen person; I was a sleep deprived wreck and I still got a positive (and ultimately a little one!) from my transfer last year. I promise you it won’t affect your chances: you can let go of worrying about worrying, at least.

Wishing you so much luck!

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Redsequin in reply to Redsequin

How did it go? Hope you are doing well xxx

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Chantysal in reply to Redsequin

well i did get ny positive still feels unreal after 12 ivf cycles but im so scared for the scan. Iv been trying to stay of the platform cos iv read that some has a scan and find an empty sac just leaving me so worried. My appoitment is Tuesday will update u what happens with us

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Redsequin in reply to Chantysal

Good luck for today 🧡

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Rainbowbaby22

Good luck hun x

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