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*Sensitive* Little One Has Arrived

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Hi all,

Our little girl has finally arrived after 2 years of infertility, 2 ICSI rounds of egg collections and one transfer, ostensibly to treat severe male factor but actually, as it turned out, as a work around to my inability to produce many eggs too.

I feel incredibly blessed that our IVF journey was relatively short (for now: who knows what will happen if we eventually try again!). The odds we were given at the start of our journey were devastating, so I just wanted to share hope that IVF is unpredictable, and it can work out even when it seems impossible.

I also just wanted to thank all the wonderful women on this forum, without whose kindness and support I would’ve been truly lost. You guys are the most amazing people: strong, knowledgeable, intuitive and just incredibly kind.

xxxxx

ps zero pressure to say congrats if it’s too painful today. You deserve to put your mental health first always.

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oh lovely this is the best news!! Congrats to you both! Hope you are doing ok and all the best with everything! She is edible xx

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Redsequin in reply to

Thanks so much, Daisy 🧡 I hope the pregnancy is still going great and you’re feeling okay. Over half way through now!! Xx

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Abloured84

congratulations . She’s beautiful. X

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Redsequin in reply to Abloured84

Thanks so much, lovely. I hope you are well xxx

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Klndmr

Never painful to say congratulations to someone's miracle! Massive congratulations, she is just perfect! Wishing you all health and happiness only from now on! Hope you are all doing well! Hugs and smiles your way xx

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Redsequin in reply to Klndmr

Thanks, beautiful. We are both doing well although the birth was a bit traumatic and has taken some time to recover from! All worth it though. I hope you are feeling a little better now and looking forward to next steps. Xxx

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Mcher

Congratulations! She's gorgeous

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Redsequin in reply to Mcher

Thanks so much! Xxx

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Solly-44

Oh my goodness she’s here and she’s so perfect!! This made me really emotional 💜 Huge congratulations to you and welcome to the gang amazing little one 🥰 xx

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Redsequin in reply to Solly-44

ahh Solly that’s so sweet of you to say! How are you? I hope the pregnancy is still going well and you are finding solutions for the morning sickness? Lots of love

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Solly-44 in reply to Redsequin

Ahh, I’m good thanks 😊 Still so sick but I’m taking that as reassuring for now! Had a scan that went well so 🙏🤞 Enjoy your first Christmas as a little family 💜🥰

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Redsequin in reply to Solly-44

Oh good! So glad the can went well 💫 Happy Christmas, lovely.

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Fudge1980

aww congratulations lovely 💗 absolutely beautiful. Enjoy every moment! All our love 🫶🏼

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Redsequin in reply to Fudge1980

Thanks lovely fudge. How is your little one! She is so big now xxx

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Star3129

Such an angel she is super cute❤

I am in my 2ww and I hope my result is positive this time and we also get to hold our healthy baby in our arms/lives.

You are truly blessed💕

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Redsequin in reply to Star3129

Thanks lovely. How did the 2WW go? I hope you got the result you wanted xxxx

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Savvy_teapot

Congratulations! What lovely news. Enjoy the cuddles 😍

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Redsequin in reply to Savvy_teapot

Thanks lovely. How are you getting on? Xx

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HollyT7

Ahhh congratulations!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️ Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!!!! XXX

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Redsequin in reply to HollyT7

Thanks so much, Holly xxx

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Fumy

Fantastic news, congratulations! She is wonderful! Xx

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Redsequin in reply to Fumy

Thanls so much and yes, she is the best… not that I’m biased or anything 🙃

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Star241

Congratulation I hope you are all doing well xx

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Redsequin in reply to Star241

Thanks so much 🧡

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butterfliez

congratulations on your beautiful baby 💗 always nice to see happiness after struggles in these journeys

Wishing you all the best xx

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Redsequin in reply to butterfliez

Thanks so much xxx

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Rainbowbaby22

Congratulations. She's lovely x

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Redsequin in reply to Rainbowbaby22

Thank you! Hope you and the little one are doing well xxx

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AuroraXen

Huge congratulations Lovely 😍! She's so gorgeous! Enjoy being a mum xx

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Redsequin in reply to AuroraXen

Thanks lovely Aurora, how are you?! I’m hoping next year is your year 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Riri88

soo happy for you! Well done mum and welcome beautiful girl! ❤️❤️❤️

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Redsequin in reply to Riri88

Thanks lovely Riri and huge congrats to you too. How are you getting on? I think our little ones were born very close together in the end (ours was 18 November) xxx

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Riri88 in reply to Redsequin

ooh wauw, yes! Iris was born the 17th of November! We are doing well, lots of sleepless nights and she is only now starting to sleep maybe 2-2,5hr at a time max haha, huge improvement from 1-1,5hr. And breastfeeding been a bit of a struggle but getting better now and start to find a bit of a routine for as far as that is even possible with a little one! But enjoying every day with her. She is just a perfect, happy little girl 🥰🥰🥰

Enjoy your first Christmas together ❤️

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FrancyItaly

OMG she is just perfect 😍 Many congratulations to you! Enjoy every moment xxx

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Redsequin in reply to FrancyItaly

Thanks so much, Francy!! How are you? Not long to go now!! Xxx

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FrancyItaly in reply to Redsequin

Not long but it feels long! I wish I could make it for Xmas 😭 xxx

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Redsequin in reply to FrancyItaly

Thanks, Francy, and huge congrats on your little one, who looks absolutely GORGEOUS xxx

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Legallyblonde39

Beautiful! Congratulations xxx

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Redsequin in reply to Legallyblonde39

Thanks, lovely.

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Sparklylife

Aw, beautiful picture! Congratulations to you and your family! She is a little precious one 😍 Hope you are doing ok 🧡

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Redsequin in reply to Sparklylife

Thank you! doing well thanks if a little sleep deprived. I hope you are too?

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Sparklylife in reply to Redsequin

Sleep was so hard to start with, it took a while for us… but it does get better. Then it gets worse, then it gets a little better.. and even better still 🥰 Rollercoaster of a journey - one I have found hard to adjust to at times.. my new role, identity change..but would not change anything and would do it all over again!! 🥰🧡 The love is amazing and intense 🥰 Wishing you all the best for the New Year!

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Miracle43

congratulations 💞 x

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Redsequin in reply to Miracle43

Thank you!

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Twiglet2

congratulations she is utterly adorable and perfect 💜 well done to you for everything you’ve been through, time to start the next chapter as a family (dirty nappies, sleepless night and all!). Thank you for sharing your amazing news with us xx

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Redsequin in reply to Twiglet2

Thanks so much, Twiglet. And, yes, the sleepless nights are in full swing! How are things with you? xx

congratulations, absolutely delighted for you! What a beautiful picture.x Lovely news.x

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Thanks lovely xx

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User20

Congratulations! She's beautiful 💞 xx

omg She’s gorgeous! Congratulations! I hope the birth wasn’t too traumatic 😮‍💨😃

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Redsequin in reply to Positivechangeplease

Thanks so much lovely. I hope you are well? xxx ps the birth was very stressful (baby got stuck in the birth canal) but I'd do it a million times over to get my little one.

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Positivechangeplease in reply to Redsequin

😇 the trauma will hopefully be a distant memory soon!

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Woody2019

Congratulations on your beautiful blessing. Enjoy every moment!♥️

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Redsequin in reply to Woody2019

Thank you, Woody!

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helodie

what wonderful news, congratulations! Xx

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Redsequin in reply to helodie

Thank you xxx

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Hopeful80

Congrats what a cutie

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Redsequin in reply to Hopeful80

Thank you xxx

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Banana77

Amazing. Congratulations - happy for you and your family x

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Redsequin in reply to Banana77

Thanks so much!

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pinky30

what amazing news! ❤️ Huge congratulations 👶🏼🍼🎉🥳🍾

Hope you are both doing well. She's gorgeous 😍

x

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Redsequin in reply to pinky30

Thanks Pinky. We are doing great, I just no longer have any time to get things done!!

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pinky30 in reply to Redsequin

😂 I can imagine!

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Somoe

Congratulations, she’s gorgeous! 🥰

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Redsequin in reply to Somoe

Thanks so much xxx

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Gillis

Congratulations !!

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Redsequin in reply to Gillis

Thank you! xxx

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Eternalwarrior

What a really beautiful picture! She is just adorable! ❤️ Enjoy every moment xxx

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Redsequin in reply to Eternalwarrior

Thanks, lovely. I am so grateful and really enjoying motherhood so far xxx

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DJ202

Massive congrats! <3

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Redsequin in reply to DJ202

Thank you! xxx

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Jane8412

Congratulations. So sweet xxx

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Redsequin in reply to Jane8412

Thanks Jane. Yes, she is a sweetie!! xxx

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Chiefy

Congratulations xx

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Redsequin in reply to Chiefy

Thanks so much, Chiefy. Hope you are well. xxx

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ellen541

Huge congratulations to you enjoy your little bundle of joy xx

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Redsequin in reply to ellen541

Thanks so much, Ellen xxx

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ClaireB24

😍 She is beautiful! Congratulations to you both xxx

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Anim88

This is such wonderful news and gives me so much hope! she's is absolutely beautiful!

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Redsequin in reply to Anim88

So glad it gives you hope! xxx

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Babyhope8

congratulations . Love happy ending

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Redsequin in reply to Babyhope8

Thanks so much xxx

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XOXO13

Huge congratulations, she’s beautiful ♥️

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Redsequin in reply to XOXO13

Thanks so much. All the heartache was worth it in the end. xxx

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Purpledoggy

Absolutely gorgeous! Congratulations xx

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Redsequin in reply to Purpledoggy

Aw thanks, lovely. Hope you are well xxx

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Cinderella5

Huge congrats, beautiful picture of your content little girl!!xxx

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Redsequin in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks lovely Cinderalla xxx

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IVFat40

She's absolutely gorgeous 😍

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Redsequin in reply to IVFat40

Aw thank you! I think she's gorgeous but I'm probably a little biased haha

congratulations to you both, she’s an absolute treasure, so very happy for you all.. All the best 💞

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ki50

Huge congratulations to you both! x

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Redsequin in reply to ki50

Thanks so much, lovely xxx

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JadeH92

Beautiful 😍. Congratulations ❤️

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Redsequin in reply to JadeH92

Thank you, Jade. Hoping you get the positive result you deserve this time around 🤞xxx

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JadeH92 in reply to Redsequin

Thank you 🤞🥰

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Joeysjourney

What a sweet little angel! Aw this is the best news xx

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Redsequin in reply to Joeysjourney

Thanks lovely Joey. How are you? I'll be looking out for your updates. I really hope 2023 is finally your year! xxx

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KiboXX

Congratulations mumma, she’s absolutely beautiful 🥰

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Redsequin in reply to KiboXX

Thanks lovely Kibo xxx

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ClaireB24

Congratulations!! She’s just perfect xx

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Redsequin in reply to ClaireB24

Thanks, Claire! xxx

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JoyfulStar

I missed this somehow! A massive congratulations! She is adorable. 💕 Hope you are somehow getting some much needed sleep.

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Redsequin in reply to JoyfulStar

ah sorry, lovely, I missed this! Thanks so much and hope you are well. LO is 3 months now 🤯

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JoyfulStar in reply to Redsequin

I completely understand! The first few weeks are generally the most trying. At least it was for me. I am doing well and so is my little one who is 1 years old! 🤯

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Anoncasper

Your post is amazing and so inspirational.! Congrats to you both. Your little girl is absolutely beautiful.

Wishing you all health and happiness in the world! xxx

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Redsequin in reply to Anoncasper

aw thanks. 🧡

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Aej1982

Huge congrats!! You give those of us still trying hope. She’s gorgeous, enjoy your bundle of joy! X

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Redsequin in reply to Aej1982

Thank you!

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