Back in the hospital today after intense pain this morning and huge bleeding.
A 2nd doctor has just rescanned me and confirmed the sac has filled with blood and the heartbeat that we found so reassuring yesterday is no longer there.
I am waiting for a MVA so that I can go home today.
Our IVF journey is over, I cannot do this anymore
Safe travels littlest one, you were so so loved. I hope to meet you again one day.
Xxxx
Update - the “procedure” went well but was obviously horrible. I’m glad I chose that option rather than staying there to have a D&C today. I feel ok physically but waking up this morning and remembering sucks. I wanted to say thanks for your lovely messages, reading them was a real genuine comfort. What a gang we are eh?? Xx
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Oh my God Hun I'm so so so sorry to read this, it breaks my heart .... No words would help just sending you strength, and millions hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Solly I’m heartbroken for you .The relief when I messaged you yesterday and in less than 24 hours this devastation .I’m truly heartbroken for you both.I’m only a message away but take time to process and let the body recover .Always in my prayers and I’m keeping you all in my heart ❤️ xxxx
Oh Solly, I am absolutely heartbroken for you. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this. We’ll all be thinking of you and sending so much love xxxxx
I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you... sending you love and hugs. Look after yourself as best as you can in this difficult times. I know it's too early not undermining what you are going through but putting myself in your situation and thinking that perhaps there are so many children who need love & care; maybe when you recover and feel ready you can think of other options like fostering/adoptions.
No words can soothe your pain in this moment 😥 Be kind to each other, you and your partner. Accept that you might not react the same way to this, but that there's no right answer to how to grieve. Receive all hugs you can get. Cry when you have to, but don't forget that there's still allowed to laugh when you experience or hear/read something funny. You won't get your so much longed and hoped for back by digging the hole of sorrow and pain so big that the sun can't reach you. This pain will probably be a part of you the rest of your life, but your life doesn't need to be miserable! Take care ❤❤❤
I'm so so sorry Solly. This is absolutely heartbreaking 😥 It's been such a bumpy and traumatic time and I wish there was a way to make things easier. Your little one will know they are loved ✨✨
I hope the next stages go smoothly so you can go home to rest and recover as much as you can. xx
Ahh no, so so sorry to hear that, I was really hoping things would improve for you. Please take your time to process it and look after yourself. Big hugs.
urgh ivf is such a horrible git. So much love sent your way right now. I know this is so not how you wanted to end this thing. I hope that now it can't do anymore damage than it already has and that you can release yourself from this sh*t show and have some amazing adventures with your little family ❤️ lots of love sent your way lovely ❤️ thinking of you xxxx
I’m so sorry. My last miscarriage happened the same way. Sac filled up with blood and I almost needed blood I lost so much. My heart aches for you. Sending you so many hugs and courage ❤️🌈
Oh, love, I am so so sorry for your loss. It is just so heartbreaking 😢😢😢 Take the time you need to grieve and look after yourself. Take care, lovely. Sending you a BIG hug and lots of love xxxxxx
I am so so sorry reading this. My heart breaks for you. There are no words I could write that could give you comfort. It is just cruel. Mind yourself 💕💕💕
Oh Solly, my heart breaks for you! I am so very sorry for your loss. I am out of words but please just give yourself time to heal. I am thinking of you and sending you a big hug. Xxx
My heart goes out to you 🤗 I’m in pretty much the same boat here. Wanted to give my daughter a sibling but lost my pregnancy around a week after we saw a heartbeat. You don’t really expect it because we’re always told a heartbeat is a good sign. Stay strong and look after yourself xxx
I’m so sorry you’re going through this too, I wish it could have been different for us both. You definitely feel a lot safer after seeing a heartbeat even though it’s still early days. Sending you big hugs xxx
Oh lovely, I’m so sorry to see this. God it’s shit ☹️ Sending you the biggest hugs 💔 xx
So awfully sorry to hear this Solly, it’s just so horrible to go through something like this. Sending love & the biggest hug. Take your time as it’s just so much for you both to deal with.xx
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Thinking of you xx
Transfer complete but we lost the back ups😕
Sensitive* we have a 1 year old!
Coming for you our lovely Blasto. ET at 11:30 today
We did it! Finally our turn!
OMG we got our BFP!!! :-D
