When does the crap end

[Daffodils1]

This journey is ever ongoing, got access to egg bank on Friday which was a step forward. Fast forward to Saturday my mother telling me she had stage 3 bowel cancer. While you want to be positive every family member including my father who I know to have had cancer has died from it. How to deal with this as well as fertility treatment? Wait, but at nearly 41 there isn’t time left. How many times is it possible to keep picking your self up?

[Hopingforbaby_]

I am so sorry to hear this. My heart is aching for you. There really are no words. I can let you know though, that you are not alone. My second mother/ step mother (I don’t like the term because she’s absolutely my mother), was diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer in October. I remember the fear you must be feeling right now. Up until now I had never known a survivor either, but she did kick cancer’s ass and is finished her treatment. Immunotherapy now. The journey isn’t over yet but it’s not as daunting as it once was. Science has come such a long way. From the bottom of my heart, good luck to you ♥️

[Betty08x]

I couldn’t read this and not say how sorry I am to hear of your situation.I wish I had the words to make it better but I just wanted to acknowledge this is such a tough and unfair combination and I really hope that there is happiness with all aspects in the future 💛 xx

[Riri88]

Ooh my love, I am so sorry to hear this. I am afraid I don’t have any answers for you but couldn’t scroll past and not say anything. Such a difficult situation and I can only imagine the amount of emotions going through you. Want to give you all the strength to deal with both and the same for your mum! and I hope both for you and your mum the universe is kind and will send all the positive vibes in the world! ❤️❤️❤️

[Savvy_teapot]

Oh man! So sorry to hear that. Hope you can take some time for yourself to go through the feelings 💜😔

[Katiluna]

I' m so sorry to read this 😔 I wish I could say something that would make you feel a bit better. It must be extremely hard to go through all of this! I hope you will find strength to get through this difficult time and wishing both you and your mum better days and a better outcome ❤️🤞💪