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So, I had my last frozen transfer on Thursday. It was very emotional and I’m finding it hard to have any sort of positivity. I feel exhausted from it all…maybe this is my body starting to accept this is the end.

Wishing you all lots of love and luck whatever stages you are at ❤️

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Star241

It is very difficult but I wish you luck 🍀 xxx

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SianieShorts in reply toStar241

Thank you xx

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ClaireB24

Wishing you loads of luck xxx

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SianieShorts in reply toClaireB24

Thank you x

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Savvy_teapot

Very hard. Make sure to look after yourself! 💜

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SianieShorts in reply toSavvy_teapot

Thank you x

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Orangeflowers

Good luck xx 🙂🌄👍

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SianieShorts in reply toOrangeflowers

Thank you xx

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RedFox23

I wanted to wish you the best! hopefully it’s not the end but just the beginning of a happy and healthy pregnancy. Xxx

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SianieShorts in reply toRedFox23

Thank you xx

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Rfletcher

I’m feeling exactly the same. I’m finding it so hard this time to feel any positivity. I’m just sitting on the sofa, no drive to do anything.

We have to try and be positive though. Is your test day the 27th? Mine is the 26th. Xx

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SianieShorts in reply toRfletcher

My test day is the 25th as it was a 5day old embryo. I’m so glad to read I’m not alone…such a tough time but you are right we need to stay positive.

Xx

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sun-and-rain

💛💛💛

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SK73

Wishing you all the best🤞🤞🤞

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SianieShorts in reply toSK73

Thank you x

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Betty08x

Hope you are okay and wishing you loads of luck for your 2ww ♥️ Xx

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SianieShorts in reply toBetty08x

Thank you xx

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J3nna

Good luck! Hopefully this is your time xx

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SianieShorts in reply toJ3nna

Thank you x

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AMJean

Hi there, I totally relate to this. It’s completely understandable that you feel a bit done in with everything you’re going through physically and emotionally. I found my defences kicked in to prepare for the worst, but the truth is it ain’t over til it’s over! You are still in this. Maybe get out for just a little walk round the block even if you don’t want to. When you start to worry, take 7 deep breaths and remind yourself that you have the strength to keep going. Keep going my lovely - I know where you’re at. As I write this, I’m telling myself the same! Xx

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SianieShorts in reply toAMJean

Thank you so much for your reply. It helps a great deal to know I’m not alone. Wishing you all the best for your cycle xx

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Infragilis

Wishing you the best of luck with this transfer. This journey is so difficult but you have done so well to get where you are. Remember that and try to keep busy during the wait.

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SianieShorts in reply toInfragilis

Thank you so much. Good luck to you too x

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Zara80

Try not to be too down , very best of luck to you x

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SianieShorts in reply toZara80

Thank you xx

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MAPB

I know how it feels when you just can’t believe you’re ever going to see anything but a negative test staring back at you. Don’t beat yourself up for feeling hopeless, having a break in your heroism and determination isn’t giving up. Have a rest and when you are ready your courage will come back to you x Is it your last one bc you are on the NHS?

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SianieShorts in reply toMAPB

Thank you for your reply.We had 1 IVF round on the NHS back in 2017. Subsequent 3 have been private. Finances have a lot to do with it but I am also just tired physically and mentally.

X

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Alilou1980 in reply toSianieShorts

That's how I'm feeling this is my last one privately to .. cant afford to go any further and not sure if I could emotionally..I suffer mentally and emotionally..but I dont think I was ready ....for exactly what we go through..and nobody unless going through it understands this ....🤞 for u that this is the one ! Xx

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SunnyMc

I feel exactly the same! I will have my final transfer in the next couple of weeks and if it fails then that’s it for us. We can’t keep trying anymore it’s just too hard physically/emotionally/ financially. Urgh! Wishing you loads of luck, it’s such a crap situation that other people that haven’t gone through it just don’t get.

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SianieShorts in reply toSunnyMc

It really is, isn’t it?! All the very best to you too x

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MAPB

I know how both of you feel. I had to take a few months off after our last failed transfer, it took everything out of me and it was only the second!

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