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Confused and praying for a miracle

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Hey lovelies

Me again ! So after my last couple of posts last week about bleeding and it stopping (5w 3d), I actually passed a golf ball size clot on Monday evening , that looked very much like a sac and embryo (sorry tmi 😭)

After calling my clinic and sending photos they told me it is probably a miscarriage so to let it all pass naturally and if i had any heavy bleeding or pain to go to epu . They said test again after a week and call them back they also told me to stop my medication .

It’s now been a week and Iv had no other bleeding since losing that massive clot last Monday .. I was fully expecting to have a full period like bleed or to have to wear a pad. Also Iv had the most horrendous nausea and sickness this week .

So today Iv done another test and it’s came back 3+ weeks on clear blue …? (6w 3d)

I literally only got my first 3+ the day before I started bleeding last week so meant I’d only just hit the threshold of 2700 hcg so surely a week later it should have dropped below that threshold ?

Is there any possibility there could still be an on going pregnancy ?

Iv left a message for my clinic to call me back and see if they will scan me , but I feel like they are not the best 😩

Anyone had something like this happen and still end up being positive ?

Xxxx

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KiboXX profile image
KiboXX

Hey lovely,

So sorry you’re having a rough time. Have you called the EPU? A bleed, even with a clot doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve had a miscarriage so I think your clinic are terrible for telling you it is without either a blood test or a scan!

Call the EPU, they will hopefully get you in for a scan asap xxx

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

Oh Hollie.. so so sorry that this happened. I agree with Kibo.. get yourself to an EPU and get scanned. The one near me accepts walk ins every day. As your clinic has told you to stop all meds I would try and get scanned as soon as possible in case you need to restart the meds. Better to be safe. I find your clinic’s instructions to quit meds without scans really odd..Sending you a big hug xx

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ZiggyandBC

So sorry you’re having to deal with this, you must be so confused. I’d definitely go to EPU and ask for a scan, at least you’ll then have more of an idea of what’s going on. Sending lots of love and I hope you get some good news ❤️

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MagicTourmaline

I am soo sorry, this sounds really stressful... I am sorry your clinic is not helpful at all... I completely agree with the others to go to EPU and get a scan or the other thing i would do if its a long wait to book a private scan if you can but have it done as soon as possible so you know what to do... I am sending you lots of love...

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Holliebx

Thank you soooo much for all your reply’s … I managed to get through to my clinic who got me in for scan today … and I am in utter shock …. I heard a heartbeat 😭😭😭😭😭😭 my first time ever hearing one after 9 previous losses .. I have genuinely spent this week grieving the loss of our baby after believing the clot that I passed last week was the baby . It was bigger then a golf ball !! I still can’t believe it now . Everything measured ok and strong heartbeat 😭😭😭😭😭😭 (these are all happy tears ) they could give me much advice about what it could have been that I passed last week but I’m just so overwhelmed that the baby was still there … ✨✨✨✨ Praying it can stick around abit longer ! But today we celebrate this small win ! 😬❤️

Xxx

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Cinderella5 in reply to Holliebx

Over the moon for you! Look after yourself & tonnes of luck!xxx

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KiboXX in reply to Holliebx

What wonderful news! 🥰

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Millbanks in reply to Holliebx

Yay!!! Such fab new hun - stay strong xx

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Hoop123 in reply to Holliebx

Amazing news! I was crossing my fingers for you and I'm so thrilled!!! 🥰 xx

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MagicTourmaline in reply to Holliebx

Oh my God, I am sooo happy for you!!!

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RedFox23

The best news ✨

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JoyfulStar

So so pleased for you. Praying this is just the beginning of the good news 🙏🏾

This has truly made my day! ☺️

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Bozo_the_pumpkin

Amazing news! I am so pleased for you.💕

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Hallj10

Hi. Just wondering how you got on after all your bleeding 7 months ago? X

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Holliebx in reply to Hallj10

Hi lovely . I am currently 36 weeks pregnant 🥰🥰and so far no other dramas since that initial bleed and clots at 6weeks , so feeling incredible lucky xxx

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Hallj10 in reply to Holliebx

Amazing news congratulations x

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