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***UPDATE***confirmed miscarriage at 21dpo

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Today I had my Hcg done. It came back at a "wonderful" number of 3,4 iu/l from 130iu/l which was exactly 7 days ago. I found out it didn't had a chance in the first place. It failed to implant further, so my Hcg levels didn't even doubled in the first 48 hours. I'm still bleeding after about 36 hours since it started. But it's more moderate and less painful. I wish all of you WONDER WOMENS happy holidays. Never lose your power and determination! We can do it! We can get through anything!

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I’m so sorry to hear this 😢 take care xx

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Thank you so much dear! I'll take care🥰

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Oh so sorry!!! We are super women, just got to keep going. This group is so good for support. I had a crappy day myself, so stressed but ladies are so supportive. Please stay strong and just keep going. 🥺

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This group help me a lot of times! I'm a person that has to talk about her problems in order so I won't get mad!

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And me 😑 my husband moans about me always being on this group but it helps me a lot. Also we can see how many ladies out there in the same boat

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He even made to delete my previous account but I made another. I have to talk or I'll go crazy. And nobody understands you better than a person that went through something similar

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Ahhh darling I'm so sorry to hear this. Your positive attitude is really amazing though, you're obviously a very special person ❤ xx

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Ohhh thank you for your kind words!🥰😍

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Ranchu90

I am so sorry 😔I wanted to congratulate you for your attitude, you will succeed with it, trust me ♥️

Stay strong 😚

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Thank you very much! I have to be strong and never give up. I want to be a mother so if God won't grant me a biologically child we're thinking about adopting.

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XOXO13

So sorry 💔 I love your positive, fighter attitude - it is sometimes so hard to keep that through treatment but it’s also so important to hold onto it - it’s what will help you through the hurdles. Sending lots of love 💕 xxx

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Thank you so much! It's hard, I had such a mixed year. My feelings are all over the place. And these treatments are making my mental health a bit like a landmine. My relationship with my husband is more important, I'm grateful for having him. He's so supportive and cried as much as I did. It's a hard battle that not every person or couple is willing to go through. We're going to try naturally, even if we don't have any chances, at least we'll feel amazing😁😉 and we'll try to transfer our frozen embryo and give him a chance. Everything is up to God. Our destiny is written before we're born so not even God can chance what is happening right now!

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So sorry to hear about your loss. Getting a positive to then swiftly lose it again is just crushing (we’ve been there before too). Good on you for your brilliant attitude. I have no doubt it will get you and your husband through these difficult times💞. Hold each other tight! Wishing you the best of luck with whatever your next steps end up being lovely xxx

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Thank you so so much dear! We have to got through these sad moments but what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger!

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I had the same positive test results hcg levels were at 345 but I experienced pains had another blood test 48hours later and it had declined to 125 so I’m miscarrying . Stopped taking my pessaries and am now waiting for my bleed. It’s all such a hard journey for everyone but you have to keep positive. Thanks for the lovely positive post and I wish you all the luck going forward. Have a nice Xmas x

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Ohhh sweetie! Stay strong and positive! My heart goes out to you. Take each day step by step and after the bleeding stops you'll start to feel a lot better. Hope you won't need any painkillers for your physical pain. The mental one has only one cure...time!

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I’m so sorry to hear this xx

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I'm starting to feel a lot better by each passing day! 🥰

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