And just like that it was all over...

[Greyeverything]

So after a BFP on 7dp5dt and a darker BFP 8dp5dt I am now getting very definite BFN’s on 9dp5dt. Was cramping really badly today and my other symptoms which were very strong are fading so it’s a chemical.

Absolutely heartbroken. Can’t stop crying. Can’t believe this has happened after my first ever BFP. My lovely pregnancy bubble lasted only 2 day’s and that’s another top quality blast gone. I should have know it was too good to be true.

I just don’t even know how to move on from this. I know in a way I’m lucky I didn’t get further along which would be even more devastating but I actually started to let myself believe it might happen for me.

[Rella22]

I’m so terribly sorry this has happened to you. Sending you lots of love ❤️

[Tywo]

Am really sorry to hear this. Please don’t give up stay positive you never know.

[jenny34]

I'm so sorry you are going through this. It is devastating. When is your actual test day? Sorry to ask and obviously you know your own body. But I had a bfp then I made the mistake of doing loads of tests. The line faded and I got myself in a right state. Had a scan at EPU and all was fine. Thinking of you xxx

[Greyeverything in reply to jenny34]

It’s tomorrow but all tests including first morning urine are now completely negative after being a clear positive. Plus it’s such early days the only reason it would fade is chemical 😢

[jenny34 in reply to Greyeverything]

I'm so so sorry. Life is so cruel. Thinking of you and sending love . Look after yourself and try to put yourself first in the coming days xxx

[Livinginhope2019]

Sending you big hugs xxx

[Dreamingofbaby]

So sorry Hun that is so sad. Big hugs. Xx

[Kitcat12]

I'm sorry lovely, this process can be cruel and desperately unfair x

[Picalilli99]

So sorry lovely. It’s so tough to get your bfp and then swiftly have it taken away again. Sending big hugs xx

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry, its heartbreaking having a CP. Massive hugs.xx

[Hidden]

I’m really sorry I had a chemical pregnancy 2 years ago & it felt like my whole world had fallen apart it happened the day after our BFP. It’s so very cruel to see a BFP & have taken away. A loss is a loss & it’s no less valued. Life is life. I hope you have plenty of support around you xxx

[Greyeverything in reply to Hidden]

Thank you. It does feel like the end of the world at the moment. I was so so happy to finally get a BFP and now I just feel angry. It’s so unfair!

I have a few friends who know and my husband so I’ll be ok. Just can’t stop thinking about it at the moment. I see that you have a little one now, congratulations. It’s great to see a happy ending Xx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry ☹️ it's so cruel. Takes a long time for your heart to heal after a loss like that . I'm sending you a huge hug, it's Ok to grieve 😭

[Shirazlover2013]

Oh I’m so sorry, to have it snatched away so quickly obviously hurts. It’s natural to hope and let yourself believe it is your time, it wouldn’t hurt any less if you hadn’t got your hopes up. Look after yourself xx

[Love_the_mountains]

So sorry. I know words arent going to take away your pain right now but we are all thinking of you right now and hopefully with time you will start to feel a bit better. But don't give up just yet! If money allows, invest that into seeing a new specialist. Do some research to find one that specialises in your case. Good luck xxx