Silly mistake

[Bozo_the_pumpkin]

I did a silly thing today.. I am 3dp5dt and tested… why why why… this is not my first rodeo so I know very well that it’s too early… must say.. seeing the BFN on the test just totally took the wind out of my sails-even though I know it’s too early…😣 just wanted to share…

Good luck to all my 2ww buddies out there

[Faith103]

I’m 5dpt. I definitely don’t want to test I’m so scared xxx how are you feeling

[Bozo_the_pumpkin in reply to Faith103]

.Good luck! Baby dust to you.. 🤞🏽 Mentally. I know there is still hope .. just gotta pull myself out of this funk🙆🏽‍♀️

[Twiglet2]

I understand this urge!!! Not silly at all 🤗 I use this to remind me that there is no HCG in the bloodstream yet and it helps me. At this early stage you would have been as well running the pregnancy test under the tap as there would be as much chance of a positive so please please don’t use that as any indication of the result of this transfer 😘 best of luck to you 🤞🏽 Xxx

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[Bozo_the_pumpkin in reply to Twiglet2]

Thank you so much for the words of wisdom. I definitely need the reminder… this really helps to bring a semblance of logic back!.. I do like the analogy of ‘running it under the tap’! A nice visual way of confirming what I know to be true. 🙂 everything has been going so well until now.. I’ve been so confident and calm.. so that blank little bit of cheap cardboard I used for the test at 6 in the evening no less, really just rocked me..

How are you holding up? Are you enjoying your 2ww? It could be such an exciting time🙂

[Twiglet2 in reply to Bozo_the_pumpkin]

Not so much ‘wisdom’ as ‘been there’ lol Aww I’m just trying to pretend it’s not happened for at least another week which is easier as I have no meds this time but obviously when you can’t drink, lift heavy stuff etc it’s impossible not to think about it throughout the day wondering if anything happening or not lol LONGEST weeks ever 🤗xx

[Positivechangeplease]

Breathe breathe breathe! It’s way too early to test and just remember a BFN is normal for all the BFPs at this point. I tested early with my first transfer and got major disappointment. On my second transfer I said I was not testing early for this reason and it was a good decision. I worked myself into it being a BFN so imagine my surprise when I got a BFP. My advice is only test now on the right date

[Bozo_the_pumpkin]

Thank you Positivechangeplease! What a perfect way to describe it.. I never really thought of it in quite such terms… !Congrats on your BFP 😊 I do like a ‘happy ever after ‘ story. Gives us all some inspiration to carry on.

I tend to test a bit earlier.. normally from around 7dp5dt- .10 days of building up hope is a long time. Not sure what happened this time!

How far along are you now and how is it going?