Depressed 5th day after transfer

[Alilou1980]

Hi I'm new to this site I am currently on round 2 of ivf and 5day of a 5dt ..I know I should have but hern really down and did not at day 2 and today day 5 ..dont know why I did made me feel worse as they were negative..I'm not getting any side effects for pregnancy..all this I been getting sweats on and off and alot of vivid dreams

[SUMMERTIME02]

If symptoms are anything to go off they can mean anything. I really made myself sick with worry by closely following symptoms. I really wish this is a successful transfer for you and lil embaby sticks x All the best, hard to do and easier for me to say but watch some comedy and try ur best to stay distracted xx

[Alilou1980 in reply to SUMMERTIME02]

Thank u 😊 and for your replie..I think that's why I'm struggling...nothing to go by as in effects ..Netflix boxset binge watching at moment x

[SUMMERTIME02 in reply to Alilou1980]

My sister and sister in laws 2nd ivf was successful and it was on that turn they had no symptoms! So really if anything it could be a good sign! 💜

[SR90]

My only advice is just keep busy, at day 5 there may not have even been implantation yet so anything can happen.

I’m actually a terrible symptom spotter. On a normal cycle I just ignore everything as I know the chances are so slim, but this is our first actual transfer so I’m really hoping everything I feel is a symptom, but I’m also preparing myself that it could not be. I am on day 5 and have another 8 days to wait. When have they told you to officially test?

[Alilou1980 in reply to SR90]

Thank you for your replie 7th nov x

[SR90 in reply to Alilou1980]

1 day before me 😊 good luck, it’s still another week yet so anything could happen x

[Capps8 in reply to SR90]

Cycle buddies. My test date is the 8th. This is so hard! Trying not to test until next week.

[SR90 in reply to Capps8]

So hard! 1 week to go. I’m not feeling anything so I’m kinda counting myself out already, but we shall see. Good luck 🤞 x

[Capps8 in reply to SR90]

Today I have a terrible headache so hanging onto it for dear life and double guessing. God knows it’s so tense. Sometimes you get no symptoms at all.

[Alilou1980 in reply to SR90]

Good luck xx

[Alilou1980 in reply to Capps8]

My test date to good luck xx

[Alilou1980 in reply to Capps8]

I'm so nervous I dont want to do the test ..scared of outcome xx

[Capps8 in reply to Alilou1980]

I stupidly did one today. Obv negative. I have had a positive before after 8dpt so will do again Thursday. I don’t know why I did today I think I wanted to shock myself so I stop being so hopeful and don’t get too upset. Bit sure if that’s weird way of thinking!!!!

[Alilou1980 in reply to Capps8]

That's what I did babe ..but it just depressed me ......fingers crossed for u girl ....xx

[Sirius_star]

The 2 week wait is hell. You don’t know how you will get through it but each time you do. Every time it does get harder abs looking for every twinge.

On my last round I had lots of implantation bleed but at the time I was heart broken as thought that was it on our last chance and had to wait 8 days everything turned out ok. You just never know what to look for and everyone so different. Fingers crossed for everyone, stay strong xxxx