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Tested on 12dt and BFN

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For some reason I thought It would work but no! I feel as though my body has failed me. It’s a very disappointing situation. I feel sad, down, upset, tearful…

I can’t pretend that I’m ok and I just need to grieve.

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p226

i am so sorry - its a terrible feeling... it only heals with time, nothing makes the pain easier.. just don't blame yourself for it.. just take care of yourself...

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Phoenix. Make sure you have tested on the day recommended by your clinic..if not, then continue with any prescribed medication for bow. It’s is terribly miserable when a cycle fails, but hopefully once you feel stronger you will try again. Thinking of you. Diane

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Pnw2020

So sorry to hear your news. It is awful but you will start to feel better again. Have you booked a review with the clinic? Be kind to yourself x

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Phoenix200 in reply to Pnw2020

Thank you Pnw. It means a lot. No I haven’t. I felt too emotional to call them. I thought I call them on the actual test day.

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Bella_Bee

I'm so sorry.. I've had years of negative tests, such an awful deflating hopeless feeling every time. Sending you a hug and the best of luck for the next attempt. ❤

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Phoenix200 in reply to Bella_Bee

Thank you Bella

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