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I’m literally having some sort of torturous nightmare. Transfer in the last week of May, BFP soon after. For any anyone that read my last post, I had a bleed at 5weeks + 3 on Tuesday, went to EPU, they found two happy gestational sacks and yolk sacs. So I took a breath. Wednesday night another big bleed. Went to a private scan yesterday and twins still there, two tiny fetel poles and could see the pump of heartbeats on both. BUT she said they were too small and measuring three days behind (I’m struggling with this as she said I was too early to see a fetal poles or heartbeats but she did and then they were too small for the day?!)

Today I’ve had a mother of all bleeds, I’ll not give you horrid details but it was a lot. I’m sat here convinced it’s over. Rang clinic and they said it might be that I’m losing one and to keep on medication till they can scan on Tuesday. I really just don’t know what to do with myself now. Just got to sit here and wait? Im praying there is still one hanging on in there but seriously give me a break. I feel like this week is a serious test of my sanity.

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Sending love and strength until you get some clarity at your scan in Tuesday. I’m sorry you’ve had such a tough time. Keeping all my fingers crossed that all will be ok ❤️❤️

What an awful time for you, the wait must be agonising! I have seen others post about significant bleeds and all was well in the end. I really hope this is the case for you. Got everything crossed and sending love xx

What a difficult situation to be in. I really feel for you. I also wish I had some pearls of wisdom to share, but I don’t. Thinking of you and sending all the positive vibes in the world. Xxx

Sending you positive vibes 🤞 .. prayers for u🙏

Oh hell, what a tense wait it's going to be. Sending you big hugs and a little prayer going up that it's all ok and your little double trouble are there waiting to see you on Tuesday xxx

Sending love and hugs I hope everything will be ok xxx

So sorry you are going through this. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏾

Sorry to hear that you are going through such a horrible thing. But cant you like go to the emergency room before Tuesday and they should be able to tell whats going on.

So sorry to hear, I bled in early pregnancy (over a weekend) and called 111 and was able to get a scan on a Sunday. Have everything’s crossed for you and the two little ones xxx

I hope everything is ok Maryc32. Sending you best wishes xxx

How awful for you. I hope it all works out. I would go back to the EPU to get checked. X

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Maryc32 in reply to ChloeDE

Thank you ❤️ I called and they said they wouldn’t see me again until the following week after my clinic x

Sending so much love and hugs.

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Maryc32 in reply to kiwibaby

Thank you ❤️

Wow you are really being put through the wringer 😓I’m so sorry you have to go through this and I really hope you get a happy ending x

Thank you ❤️❤️

I am so sorry, praying for you and the babies that they make it. Please be strong and try to relax and rest sending you lots of love and hugs

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Maryc32 in reply to Sweethear

Thank you so much ❤️

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Sweethear in reply to Maryc32

Thinking of you how are you doing? Any news on the babies? Hope all is good with you

Hoping everything is ok. Sending you much strength xx

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Maryc32 in reply to HemBella

Thank you ❤️

Aw I really hope you’re ok! I was the same last year I thought it was all over with a big bleed I was convinced it was all over but at the viability scan there was still one hanging on ❤️ Now she is nearly 8 months 🌈 sending positive vibes 🙏🏻 Xxx

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Maryc32 in reply to Nikkinikkit

Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏻

My prayers are with you, relax over the weekend take it easy! Watch your favorite TV show.. Light a candle.. I know how agonizing this can be. Also been through this.

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Maryc32 in reply to Antria18

Thank you ❤️x sorry that you’ve been here too xx

I really hope you get some some good news Tuesday sending baby dust and strength to you x I bled a lot between week 5 and 8 with my twins and is so frightening but all was ok, so keep the faith xx

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Maryc32 in reply to Savs

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

Maryc32, I can’t even imagine what ur going through but just want to reply & say I’m sending u so much love & positive thoughts for your scan.❤️🙏xxx

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Maryc32 in reply to lnf17

Thank you ❤️❤️

It’s hard but try not to worry and go to EPU ASAP. I had 2 strong heartbeats at Week 7 and we lost one at Week 9. I now have a healthy full term baby boy. Not going to lie seeing and losing that heartbeat was devastating but this one has made it bearable, I hope and pray it will be the same for you xx

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Maryc32 in reply to lizzybee81

Thank you so much ❤️ I’ve rang epu and they said there’s nothing they can do as they scanned me earlier in the week xx

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lizzybee81 in reply to Maryc32

I’d try again see if you can speak to someone else. I had my 12 week scan with the remaining embryo and had a big bleed 48 hours after. When I called the hospital I was beside myself thinking I was losing this one too, the person I spoke to said that as I’d just had a scan they normally wouldn’t but they said they my mental health was more important and booked me in anyway. You just have to sometimes find a kind soul and press through the ‘computer says no’ people.

Thinking of you Maryc32 and sending you lots of love. So sorry this is happening and praying that Tuesday will bring you good news xx

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Maryc32 in reply to Che138

Thank you ❤️❤️

Thinking of you. The waiting is so hard. Keeping everything crossed for you xxxxx

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Maryc32 in reply to Debrakay1704

Thank you ❤️❤️

Please continue with your meds..Sending you love and prayers..I really feel you coz i have been through the same!!Relax and stay calm till the next scan!

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Maryc32 in reply to Elza92

Thank you ❤️

What an agonising time this must be! Please keep your hope up, you never know. I dont have any experience to share but just want to send you hugs and prayers for a good outcome

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Maryc32 in reply to Ownyee

Thank you ❤️

So sorry you’re going through this ☹️ Easy for me to say but try not to worry, I had bleeding from the day of my positive test and the clinic said possibly loosing the baby, I was beside myself, then a huge bleed at 7 weeks ended up in hospital, again they said possible miscarriage but wouldn’t scan me for 3 days, now I’m nearly 17 weeks with no explanation. The amount of blood I lost is shocking but lots of people have told me this is normal especially with ivf as it’s trauma to the womb and can cause bruising. Sending you lots of love and positive thoughts xxx

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Maryc32 in reply to Minnie92

Thank you so much, that’s helpful xx

Sending you so much love and positive vibes x

Sending you love and hugs. Just hang in there ok🤗

Sending love and strength xxx

Sending positive vibes and prayers 🙏 your way and hope it is just a womb trauma and your miracles are still safe and sound xxx

Sending you love and strength!!🤗

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Maryc32 in reply to Lacra

Thank you ❤️

This is such a difficult situation. So sorry to hear what you're going through. Thinking of you and sending lots of love your way xxx

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Maryc32 in reply to Mglove

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I just wanted to say hang in there. I bled very heavily from 6-14 weeks with my twin pregnancy. I did lose one at 8 weeks but my other is 21 months old now. It was a very hard journey but blood doesn’t always mean loss. I really hope the scan goes well on Tuesday and the bleed stops bleeding soon xxx

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Maryc32 in reply to Jenjen84

Thank you so much ❤️

Sorry to hear your going through this but hang on in there and praying all works out for you xx

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Maryc32 in reply to Miaow1975

Thank you ❤️

Hang in there! Sending you hugs and kisses! and hopefully all will turn out well!

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Maryc32 in reply to Thea114

Thank you ❤️

I bleed really heavy with my twins..at 11 weeks I was taken to hospital via ambulance from work. I bleed on and off through my whole pregancy. I have twins that turn 1 next week..xxx

I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this. I recently became pregnant with twins (fourth transfer of two embryos). Had my viability scan at 7w and they were both there with heartbeats (one was measuring to the day and the other one was a couple of days behind but the nurse said that was normal with twins). At 8w, I had a bleed (a lot of fresh blood) and was convinced it was game over. I managed to book a private scan which confirmed I had lost one of the twins at 7w6d but the other one was absolutely fine. I just had my 10w scan on Friday and the baby is still going strong (and looks much more like a baby now!). My advice would be keep taking the medication until you know exactly what is going on. I nearly stopped taking mine as I was convinced it was game over. Take care of yourself and I wish you all the very best xxx

If you're not also having cramps, that is a positive sign that things will likely be okay (i think)

Everything crossed for you. Your story caught my eye and wanted you to know that you will be ok Whatever happens xxx

I always have really heavy bleeding in my pregnancies, specifically with my twins it was a huge amount of blood every time It stopped at 14 weeks

They are now 5 years old

I’ve been there a few times and you’re right it’s torture. Wish I could reassure you, wish I could put you out of your misery but I can’t it’s a waiting game. Everything crossed for you 🤞 🙏

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Sending positive vibes and strength. Xx

Hi hun sending you all my love.i know what you are going through as I have been through the same situation 5 times .be kind to yourself. His is the planner of all plans.wait till your next scan.jm praying you get some good news.

I'm sorry to hear that but I totally understand because I have been there. I had a twin pregnancy and bled at 5 weeks and 2 days, it happened that I lost one and one stuck so I went ahead to have the other baby. I pray that everything will go on well for you. Though mine I continued bleeding for more weeks so lubion injection was added. But the other baby is fine no problem. Fingers crossed for you.

Oh I’m so so sorry Hun

Plz take it low and slow and be kind to ur self

Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts. I will be praying for you and your little ones as you go for your appointment today 🙏🏾

I'll be thinking of you today and hoping all is well with your scan. Xx

Hi Mary, hope all went well with your scan today x

Oh dear Maryc32, I am reading this now. Sending you so much love. Hope your scan went well today🙏🙏🙏

I am so sorry this is happening to you. It must be so scary. Wishing you the best outcome and hopefully things will turn out ok in the end. X

Hello everyone, I’m so sorry for some reason my account froze so I couldn’t update. Amazingly both babies are fine!!! Caught up on measurements too. My partner swore so much (with relief)

I’ve had a bit more spotting since… trying to stay calm xxx

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Sea_tan in reply to Maryc32

That is good, Maryc32!

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Minnie92 in reply to Maryc32

Amazing news so happy for you! Try and relax and rest now and let those babies cook nicely 🙏🏼

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Cinderella5 in reply to Maryc32

Great news!!xx

Wonderful news! What a relief. I wonder if it's because it is twins that its caused so much bleeding. Anyway, another day of panic over and I hope you can relax a little. 😊xx

So glad to hear that!!! 😍😍😍

Sending all the luck and love that I can 💕

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