Hoping it’s our turn...

[Fluffysocks89]

Hi lovelies..

I haven’t posted for a while and I don’t have a question, it’s just more of a little vent really.

We are so lucky to have reached transfer for the 3rd time and for that we feel so very blessed.. 💜

Transfer was on Monday and I can’t stop analysing every little twinge! The TWW is torment isn’t it?!

Our first FET ended in a BFN on test day and our second ended in a chemical. It was so hard to take! After never having a positive test ever, I really thought it was our time.

I’m praying it will be 3rd time lucky for us🤞🏼

Good luck to you all on your journeys 💖 xxx

[Millbanks]

Wishing you all the best! It's not easy but somehow we make it through. During my last 2ww I found something that finally helped me, which was to not think about the outcome at all. I usually think way ahead and I'm planning how to tell people I'm pregnant.... but last time I stopped myself thinking past the day I was in - and it really made me feel less stressed. Good luck xx

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you! I think that’s actually a really good tip. Im the same, I always let my mind wonder down the... ‘how great would it be to finally tell our parents that we are pregnant’ I always try to think positively but it’s draining! Good luck to you 🥰 xx

[Millbanks in reply to Fluffysocks89]

I always figure that the outcome isn’t going to change if I’m not 100% positive about it... so I find it’s easier to just keep it on a level. Don’t get carried away and don’t think ahead. Xx

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to Millbanks]

So true.. thanks lovely xxxx

[Millbanks in reply to Fluffysocks89]

Got everything crossed for you xx

[RhinoCat]

Hoping this is your time 💖💖💖🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐💐💐💐 Keep relaxing and stay as happy in your heart as you can 💐💐💐 Maybe it’s your turn now 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤩💐💐💐💐💐💐😘 hugs whilst ya hold tight 💐

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to RhinoCat]

Thank you so much! I’ll try not overthink this time! 💕💕 Sending you hugs too xxx

[anz07]

Wishing you all the luck! The 2ww is torture, I feel your pain! Try to keep as busy as possible - lots of Netflix to keep your mind busy! Take care xxx

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to anz07]

Thank you 💕 xxx

[LegoBatgirl]

Fingers crossed for you 🍀🤞

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to LegoBatgirl]

Thank you 💖 xxx

[Miracle43]

The 2ww is torture, I know your pain. Try to not think too far ahead, I know it’s easier said than done. 🤞🏻 for you xx

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to Miracle43]

Thank you hun.. trying to keep busy. I work from home which is a blessing with all of the appointments but it’s easier for my mind to wander when I’m home alone all day 🙈 xxx

[Savvy_teapot in reply to Fluffysocks89]

Try All that Glitters and The Sewing Bee for distractions. If you like those kind of programmes? Good luck 😁

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to Savvy_teapot]

Thanks lovely, I’ll give them a try 😍 xx

[Savvy_teapot in reply to Fluffysocks89]

I am starting my IVF soon. But these are just things I enjoyed recently!

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to Savvy_teapot]

Wishing you all the best for your journey hun 💜 xxx

[Miracle43 in reply to Fluffysocks89]

I’m the same working from home. It is so much easier... although evil Dr Google 🧐 is more available arrggh. When my mind has started to wander, I get up and try to do something whether is make a cuppa or just walk out in the garden. By doing something you focus on that so occupies your mind xx

[Fluffysocks89 in reply to Miracle43]

Great idea! Getting some fresh air is always a good thing too. Thank you 🙂 xxx