FET on Friday

[Phoebe345]

Due to have first FET on Friday. Anyone else? Not sure how I’m feeling about it to be honest. I thought I’d be excited, but my experience of OHSS last November has really knocked me.

Just wondered how anyone else felt/feels. Trying to make sense of my world at the moment, and not in a great place.

[Gemgem84]

Hi Phoebe I’m having my first FET tomorrow. I also had OHSS in Feb and felt rotten, and I’ll be honest it kind of put me off any more treatment.

But here were are. I think the stims made me feel physically ill, and the meds for FET mess up your emotions pretty badly. At least they have with me especially since staring progesterone last week. Maybe it’s that making you feel low?

I’ve had many wobbles in the last few days (my poor husband). But as he keeps reminding me we’re further along than we’ve ever been.

Focus on the end goal ❤️

[Chicky86 in reply to Gemgem84]

Good luck! I also am having a FET tomorrow xx

[Gemgem84 in reply to Chicky86]

Thankyou! I have major control issues and I’m so stressed out that I don’t know what time I have to be at the clinic and I have to wait for them to call in the morning 😫Good luck with yours xxx

[Chicky86 in reply to Gemgem84]

I'm the same! I wish I knew now what time I'll be in tomorrow 😬 I didn't have a particularly great transfer last time, so I'm also majorly stressing about that, but I had bad circumstance leading up to it which won't I won't have tomorrow, so trying to keep positive but it's so hard!! Xxx

[Phoebe345 in reply to Chicky86]

Will you find out in the morning?I’ve been given a time for Friday already.

Thinking of you both.

[Chicky86 in reply to Phoebe345]

Yes! They called today to ask a few questions, and said they would call me in the morning to let me know what time to go in. Xx

[Phoebe345 in reply to Chicky86]

Hope it went well today x

[Chicky86 in reply to Phoebe345]

Thank you! It wasn't too bad. I got a call at 10.55 and they wanted me in at 12.10, I had literally 15 minutes to get out the door, it takes an hour for me to get to the clinic 🤦🏼‍♀️ but it's all done now, and I just have the dreaded 2ww to go. How are you feeling about Friday? Xx

[Phoebe345 in reply to Chicky86]

Glad it went well - 15minutes isn’t long to get yourself together.Had a tough day today, but trying to keep busy. Just trying to keep looking forward and keep my mind busy x

[Chicky86 in reply to Phoebe345]

Thank you, I did feel a bit stressed with the timing, but I was still early! It's great you know what time you'll be in on Friday, you'll be totally prepared ready to go! Keep busy, take your mind off of it, but you will be absolutely fine! Xx

[Manny22020]

Hi Phoebe,

I had OHSS back in December and also had to freeze all...

I have just got my BFP 5 weeks 6 days today from a FET - the reason I am saying this is to hopefully give you hope xx

[Phoebe345 in reply to Manny22020]

Congratulations!And thank you. I’m trying to remember why I started this process and not lose sight of the end goal.x

[Manny22020 in reply to Phoebe345]

Thank you- I felt like you and now I’m so glad xz

[Chicky86]

Good luck, I'm having a FET tomorrow. This is my 3rd transfer. (2nd FET) try and relax, think of the end goal xx

[Rubidge]

I also have my FET tomorrow. What time is your appointment?x

[Phoebe345 in reply to Rubidge]

Hello, I have to be there for noon. You? How are you feeling about it?x

[Rubidge in reply to Phoebe345]

I’m so nervous about it I have a fresh transfer in 2017 and it worked had a little girl, we then tried again last year frozen and I went in very confident with no concerns and it didn’t work so this time I definitely feel more anxious! How are you feeling? I have to be there for 3:30 so I’ve got all day to pace around the house haha xx

[Phoebe345 in reply to Rubidge]

Not really sure how I’m feeling, but I’ve been fairly low for a while now. This is our first transfer - trying to protect myself with the idea that if it doesn’t work then hopefully we’ll learn something before we try another transfer.