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Last IVF cycle, 5 dt FET BFN

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After many years of trying and BFNs the closest I ever got was last year. I got a BFP, saw a heartbeat but miscarried at 7 weeks and 2 days. We had 2 frosties left 4AB and a 2AB, our last chance our last attempt. Sadly 10dpt 5dt FET BFN. I feel all the faith and trust I have had over the years of getting up and putting myself back together and trying again and again has been for nothing, I am still childless. It's a cruel journey, where no prayers and faith make a difference. I wish all the wonderful ladies success in their journeys as its time for me to leave. πŸ₯°

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lex8719

same feeling..

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Yazlinda in reply to lex8719

Hope you feel better. Wishing you all the best on your journey. πŸ₯°

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lex8719 in reply to Yazlinda

i dont feel better :(. infeel oike giving up

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Yazlinda in reply to lex8719

You still have time to get a BFP. πŸ™. Still hope. πŸ₯°

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lex8719 in reply to Yazlinda

i dont know but im convinced im out already :( sorry for negative vibes

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Yazlinda in reply to lex8719

I've got everything crossed for you. Hopefully it will good news on your OTD. I know how you feel. Sending a big hug. Xx

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Lovemylion

I'm so sorry to hear this. It's such a hard journey. Take all the time you need. I wish you lots of luck for the future and hope you get your happy ending. Whatever that may look like. Xxx

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Yazlinda in reply to Lovemylion

Thankyou πŸ₯°

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Ranchu90

I am so sorry, I hate when people are getting negative results as we are sacrificing so many things to reach that point and no results πŸ₯Ί. Take your time and please be strong. IVF is a hell of a journey, a lottery that is not easy sometimes to choose the right numbers 😑🀬 A big hug from me β€οΈπŸ€—

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Yazlinda in reply to Ranchu90

Thankyou. When you are going through treatment you have hope. But when it is over and many failed cycles and miscarriage. No embryos left and financially., mentally and physically exhausted. And there is no longer a plan to try again. The pain is incredible because there is no hope left in the form of IVF. Just an end. πŸ’”πŸ˜ͺ

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Ranchu90 in reply to Yazlinda

Please don't lose your hope, God might have other plans for you πŸ™πŸ€— don't rush in decisions right now as you are still affected, you need time as time is a great healer. I feel your pain, we are so many here that are going through the same thing... Stay strong πŸ’ͺ😘

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Yazlinda in reply to Ranchu90

I have had faith in God, each time picked myself up and tried again. But not so sure anymore. After repeated IVF failures and a painful miscarriage, I tried DE, that too failed ....all 4 embryos. All financial resources spent. If God's plan is for me to remain childless there is nothing I can do about it. I just have to accept years of trying i am still childless. πŸ˜ͺ

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JoyfulStar in reply to Yazlinda

Just seeing this and it broke my heart. I know it has a month but wanted to reach out to find out how you are. It is difficult to understand how God works sometimes. This journey is so hard and one of things I am determined to do no matter how hard it is remember the fragility of life and think about other areas of blessings.

Please PM me if you ever want to chat. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers πŸ™πŸΎ

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