Oh ladies I feel so lost , everything was going so well, I was blooming and we were so excited. We had our 12 week scan but baby was doing a handstand and refused to move so we had to have a quad test as they couldn’t do any measurements. The quad test came back with high levels of alphafetoprotein so I had to have a scan at 16 weeks for them to check. Again little one was doing a handstand and wouldn’t move so had to go back the following week. This is when the consultant told us he could see abnormalities. Our little Gummy Bear had spina bifida, a cleft lip, a lemon shaped head and kidney issues and tallies. They did an amniocentesis test and the results came back to say it was Trisomy 13.
We were devastated and although it was a such a heartbreaking decision we chose to let our Gummy Bear sleep with the angels. It would have been so cruel to put her through any pain, even if she did make it to full term, the chances of her surviving after birth were slim. We are crushed and Friday just gone we said our goodbyes.
Sleep tight little Gummy Bear, we will love you forever 💛💔
Sorry for the ramble ladies , I just needed to share.
Wishing you all baby dust 💕
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Bless your broken heart sweet pet 😢🥺😩 don’t know one more thing in life that is harder .... to dream to believe and then .... no. Tight hugs sweet pet. Much love, 🦏 🐈 x
I am so so sorry to read this, can’t even begin to imagine the devastation you must be going through. Thoughts and prayers with you xx
I’m so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you both xx
Hi.I am very sorry to hear about what has happened . I also know what you are going through . I let my baby to go to sleep at 24 weeks as he had hydrops .
It was two years ago and I still feel loss and guilt .
I didn't get any help as the hospital was very slow and in the end I dealt with it myself.
Feel free to contact me .
Katrina
Im so sorry for your loss love. What a terrible hard time this must be. Hope your angel rests in peace and her parents find peace of mind. Take care if yourselves x x x
Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry. How absolutely heartbreaking for you all. It’s so cruel to go through so much for you to have to say goodbye so early. Sending you all my strength and love xxx
Oh my goodness! God bless you! 💕 this is truly heartbreaking to read but I am glad you made the best decision that you felt you could in such heartbreaking conditions. Thoughts are with you at such a hard time. ❤️❤️❤️ xxxx
I’m so so sorry. This must be the hardest thing ever to have to go through. I hope you have lots of support around you at this time. Sending a massive hug your way xxx
This is really sad and there are no words which can heal you but remember God is watching you and He knows that you are going through this and He will Reward you InshaAllah Trust on God almighty
I am so sorry that you have had to go through this. I went through this almost 2 years ago and my only advice is take your time to grieve and definitely speak to a counsellor of you can when you’re ready. I didn’t and the guilt ate me up for a year. Sending you lots of love and if you need a chat message me.
I'm so sorry for your loss hun. It really is a cruel world sometimes to go through such a struggle to conceive and then have to say goodbye to your already much loved baby ❤️. I hope you've got lots of support around you. Sending love 💕xXx
I’m so so sorry to be reading this, brings tears to me just reading it let alone going through it, just remember you’re not alone hunny you can always pop up if you just want to rant scream or anything 💔❤️
I also lost my daughter to trisomy 13 and we found out at 20 weeks she was born at 33 but passed very soon after I know how heartbreaking this is. I’m just so sorry you are going through this. Sending lots of love 💕
What a beautiful term of affection little gummy bear. You and your partner are incredibly brave in the face of such unfairness. Sending you strength and love xx
Such a sad story to read. My heart goes out to you and your partner. I hope you are getting support. I think are very courageous opening up about such a personal and heartbreaking experience.
So desperately sorry for your loss, can’t imagine what you are going through. Take your time to heal and please try not to feel guilty. None of this is under our control. Massive hugs xxx
I am so sorry for your loss! Words really do get poor in moments like these. Look after each other and she will always be with you in your hearts! Sleep tight little one. Big virtual hug 🧡
Sooooo sorry for your lost and all you are going through. Please try and stay strong and take care of yourselves and comfort each other my prayers are with you. Big hugs
I’m so sorry sweetheart. We had to make that same awful decision on 2nd January and even though I’m sure it was right the right decision it still haunts me. Sending much love xxx
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life really isn’t fair. Take as much time to heal and grieve x 
22 weeks scan *update*
Heartbroken 
Miscarriage at 12 weeks 
7 weeks scan
28 weeks pregnant tomorrow 4d scan 
