Arhhh help!

[Noodle08]

I am so confused. I am due to have transfer today. The clinic has just called to say that one embryo was thawed overnight and is not progressing as they would like and only a third of the cells are progressing. We have 1 more embryo to thaw. Should we thaw that one as well and transfer both or discard this one and see what the next does. Oh my goodness I have no idea what to do 😩

[MiniS5]

Hey noodle I’m sorry to hear this. If it was me I would thaw the second one and chuck both back in.. ! it has a better chance in your warm cosy uterus then it does in a petri dish and it deserves a chance! Just my view though! Good luck with whatever you decide xx

[Melonay1987]

I agree with Mini. Good luck lovely xxx

[ToughCOOKIE78]

Hey noodle! Yes I also agree with Mini- go for it! 🤞🏻🍀❤️Good luck hun! Xx

[Ranchu90]

Go for 2, give them both a chance, if there is something wrong with the first one then it will not implant. Good luck 🤞♥️

[SianieShorts]

Yes go for it! You will always wonder otherwise x

[Noodle08]

Thank you so much for your responses.

We have opted to thaw the last one and see from there. She said there was no abnormalities with the 1st but that it was unlikely to develop. I know the risk of multiple pregnancy and my clinic say how much they are nervous about them so it’s so hard to know what to do but if the 1st is not strong it is unlikely to take anyway if we put both in?!

We had a really strong embryo transferred in November that they raved about how good it was and that failed so now we have 2 not so strong one 😢

Argh this is horrible, I feel so anxious, they tell you not to stress but I defy anyone not to stress 🤯 xx

[XOXO13]

I hope your transfer went okay 🤍💫

[Noodle08 in reply to XOXO13]

A Thank you so much for thinking of me. I have been in a head spin all day and totally emotionally drained. We did opt for the double transfer 😬

One weak one that they do not feel will become anything and a stronger one. I feel so anxious. How do you ever know if you have done the right thing?! My head is all over the place and what a 2 week wait this is going to be 😳

Thanks again so much for thinking of me. I hope you are ok? Keeping everything crossed for you as well as me Xx

[XOXO13 in reply to Noodle08]

I think you made the right decision to transfer two, I would have done the same and you just have to pray, hope and stay positive that you have success 🤞🏻

The TWW is so hard. This time I found the first week okay, I took time off and just spent time reading books and resting and sleeping a decent amount. It’s the second week I’ve found a little more difficult .. less sleeping (not through lack of trying either) and I guess a little more anxious the closer it gets to OTD!

Have you got anything planned to keep yourself distracted through the TWW?

I’m doing okay thank you. Whilst anxious, I’m trying to remain hopeful and positive 🤞🏻💫 xxx

[Noodle08]

I will keep all limbs and fingers crossed for you and I 🥰

You sounds like you have been doing a grand job keeping yourself calm and centred. I have to try and do the same but I care for my mother who has Alzheimer’s so life is a little hectic but I will chill where I can. Today has just had my head all over the show.

Thank you for the reassurance. I do hope I have done the right thing 🤞🏽I just worry so much about the risk of multiple pregnancy as my clinic REALLY seems against them! I felt like I was going against medical advice today 😩

Only time will tell. All the best for Saturday, plenty of magic baby dust for you xx

[XOXO13 in reply to Noodle08]

Thank youuuu, me too! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Ah I’m sorry to hear about your mum, that must be very tough for you. It’s a heartbreaking disease 💔 and you’re very strong and so caring for supporting your mum through it.

Lots of women carry twins and I’ve no doubt it’s difficult and with it’s challenges but there’s successes stories out there so try and not worry about that right now. Just focus on you, on step at a time day-by-day 🤍💫 xx

[Noodle08 in reply to XOXO13]

Thank you. All the best. Not long for you to wait now 💝