Clutching at straws now? 11dp5dt small 2BB

[Nik1988]

Tested negative yesterday and clinic have still asked I stay on meds and retest with their test on Monday (14dp5dt) Obviously I’m still testing daily myself with cheapies, scowling the internet for success stories, finding any successful reason why I didn’t get a positive early like everyone else seems to have. Checking how late implantation can be. Each hour loosing hope and getting more angry it hasn’t worked again and that my last frozen is the same grade so unlikely to feel positive about that either.

Anyone else see anything? Anyone else have the same experience and it turn around?

Don’t want to hear “I got a positive at 8dp5dt, so would expect it to be stronger by now” honestly that’s not helpful. We know most do and congratulations but we are hanging on for a few days and want to hear about those that it wasn’t so obvious at this stage.

[Cinderella5]

What I would say is in my experience my hCG levels have never shown early on these types of tests, they're not great for early detection even although they should be. Im not sure if you have another type of test or could go out and but a first response early result this would give you a far better result. Good luck.xx

[Nik1988 in reply to Cinderella5]

Did a first response yesterday and nothing. Have one left that I am trying to save for Monday in the hope it will be different. 😞 x

[Cinderella5 in reply to Nik1988]

Oh I see, Im sorry! I don't want to get your hopes up but I didn't get a really faint positive on day 12. Unfortunately it didn't stick and we lost the pregnancy at 6 wks however it can happen although pretty rare.xx

[Nik1988 in reply to Cinderella5]

I’m sorry to hear that. I just want to know it’s possible to work. This is our 2nd attempted and we have no underlining issues other than AMH been 8 so low/boarder line. But still got 7 eggs that all fertilized. And I have no tubes due to eptopic and scar tissue. Seeing 2 lines would give me hope to even keep trying should the worst happen after. Not having that yet is making me choose to give up. If makes sense. X

[Cinderella5 in reply to Nik1988]

Yes, it did help me to carry on too.....we had many failed attempts but the positives do give you encouragement to keep going!! Wishing you all the best.xx

[Nik1988 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you. I want to keep going but having another negative is draining. And does make you wonder if you should keep going or call it a day. But as you said that 1 positive gives hope and pushed you forward. XxTo you too 🤞🏼 Xx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Nik. You might already know what my reply will be, and that is to test on the day recommended by your clinic, either with the first urine of the day, or by blood test. Keep up with any prescribed medication. Good luck! Diane

[Nik1988 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you.. I know they much be a reason why they give that date and I was doing so well and positive till google encouraged me to test early. 😞 let’s hope Monday changes everything. X

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Nik1988]

Hi. Me too. Thinking of you. Diane