2 week wait symtoms - same for 1st BFP and the 2nd?

[Positivevibe]

Hi guys.

My fresh transfer ended in a missed miscarriage. I just finished my FET last week. Would the symptoms be the same for the 1st time when it was a BFP and now ? I feel a lot different this time and I am worried that I might be out already

[Olivialinney]

The 2ww is full of mind games. 🤯I’m currently 5dp5dt and before I even started I felt this time wasn’t going to work 😔and I don’t think I was wrong as I’ve been testing my trigger out and today was a bfn. I can’t help but compare to my last cycle where I had a very clear bfp by now And I had so many symptoms last time and very little this time around. I know it’s early ( but this is my 9th transfer I know How My body works by now)but I feel the same 😩hoping for a miracle but not expecting one xx

[Positivevibe in reply to Olivialinney]

I just admire your strength to go thru this process 9 times. I am already thinking of moving forward to adoption if this doesn’t work. I hate the fact that women have to go thru so much 😭 keep going ! I wish you the very best for this transfer. I wish that this will be the last one

[Olivialinney in reply to Positivevibe]

Thank you. I wish that 9 transfer was the only part of my story 😔(2 20 week losses and a full term loss) its been incredibly hard I know at some point I will have to stop because our mental health can’t take much more but I’m not quite there yet. Wish you all the best 🤞🏻for that bfp xx

[Sas1101]

So sorry to hear about your MMC.

I've had a fresh and a FET and on both occasions felt very differently. I did get a positive pregnancy test with both but unfortunately bith ended in a chemical.

You hear so many stories of people feeling they are out and getting their BFP. I also think with a FET you don't have all the settling of your ovaries etc so may feel different anyway.

Hang in there! You got this 💪🏻xx

[Positivevibe in reply to Sas1101]

Yes , you are right. Haven’t used a lot of drugs this time. Could be the case 😊 hope this works. Thank you for your reply.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Positivevibe. Your original treatment cycle probably involved more drugs, so you could have been exposed to more side effects. Fingers crossed all goes well this time for you, and please test on the day recommended by your clinic. Good luck! Diane

[Positivevibe in reply to DianeArnold]

Hello Diane, yes you are right. I used a lot of drugs. It could be the reason why I feel different this time. I am on 4dp5dt. Hope it works this time 😊 thank you for your reply