I knew the result would be BFN as I started to bleed yesterday. I still wanted to hold on & be hopeful. I took the courage & decided to take the test this morning & results confirmed BFN. I will make the call to the clinic as I'm OTD is tomorrow.
This was our last cycle & we had decided not to put ourselves through this journey again if it didn't work. So this is truly the end of the road for us. Thanking all of you for your support & wishing you the very best of luck.
Hi dear,
We are in the same situation. Got another BFN yesterday after FET...
Talked with my husband and I will continue to try naturally... doc said there is a small chance ... so never knows ...
I also realize it might not happen at all ( I am 41)...
We are at the point to organize our life and to be happy like this - not to become 2 grumpy old people 😀.
We’ve made a list with the things to be grateful for and realized there are people in situations much worse than ours. We try to find joy in daily small stuff...
DaisyR,
I'm so sorry 😞. It's a tough journey. Yeah we are the same we will continue to try naturally as there is a small chance. But if does not than it's ok. Husband says he is happy just being the two of us and enjoying life. There is so much to do & so much to see.
You are so right about there are so many other people in many bad situation. Life is short & we have got to make the most of it.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Sending you lots of love & best wishes ♥️
I'm so sorry both- KriSho and Daisy. This must be heart breaking but you both have such a healthy attitude. Despite the heartbreak, life will go on for all of us who aren't blessed in this way. There is a world out there behind all of this, beyond fertility. I sometimes feel this whole year is just a waste of my life... so easy to focus only on cycle after cycle, waiting every month for that seemingly inevitable blank test. It helps to hear people remind us that if this isn't going to happen, we still have lives to enjoy. Wishing you both much love and peace x
So sorry to hear that it did not work out this time. Wishing you all the best for the days ahead x x
So sorry ☹️ sending love & strength that we all need on these days xx
I’m so sorry krisho, this is truly heart breaking news. I hope whatever you decide next gives you some comfort and satisfaction for the long term. Xx
BFN!!! 😔
BFN
BFN 😢
BFN 😪
Bfn 😢
