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Time to say Goodbye 💔

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My 4th and Final Ivf cycle has failed again and im hearthbroken.

This is the end of the road for us. Both my husband and I decided we cant go through so much hearthbrake again

On 4 cycles we only got 2 blastocysts... One pgs normal failed and the other isa mosaic embryo which is frozen.

Our next step is starting our adoption process. Im already excited at the tought of it and I pray to God for his help over tje coming years.

I wish you all the best of luck in your journeys and thank you all for the support over the years ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Lorita. Oh dear! I was so sad to hear that all has not turned out as you wanted and I do hope you've got plenty of support just now. On the other hand, I was pleased to read that you are going down the adoption route to fulfill your hope of a family. Thinking of you. Diane

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Shazb123

I’m sorry to hear this Lorita. This is a journey of emotions with no confirm outcome. I found out on Monday my embroyo transfer failed. Even though it’s devastating we need to be here for each other and understand God has a best plan for us even if we cannot understand it. Sending my love and prayers to you x

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Cinderella5

Awww Lorita, Im so sorry that it didnt work out for you guys!! I want to wish you all the best with your quest to adopt!! Look after yourselves.xxx

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Rain415

Want to wish you all the best with the adoption process I hope everything falls into place for you! X

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CLDxxx

So sorry to read this lovely.

Wishing you all the luck in the world with the adoption process, it will be one lucky little one who comes to you 💕

Take care xxx

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Aussie83

Aww I’m sorry it didn’t work out for you and your partner. It’s the worst pain isn’t it.

We have also just had a failed 3rd cycle and not sure where to go from here.

The heartbreak each time is so rough!

All the best for your journey into adoption tho x

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Sarah_37

So sorry the IVF wasn’t successful. What an amazing thing to do. X

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FrancyItaly

I am so sorry it didn’t work out for you, I’m sure there is a little someone out there who needs a loving family! Also, miracles happen and it might still happen for you one day. Wishing you all the best 💕

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hifer

Wishing you all the very best in your adoption process. We hope to hear of an update on your journey XX

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Tiddly1984

So sorry things didn’t work out for you Lorita. It truly can be heartbreaking. I hope all goes well given your choice to adopt. Its a beautiful thing you’re doing and you’ll receive so much love in return. In some ways it can feel more precious because you wonder what life the child may otherwise have had and how if circumstances were different you may never have met them, yet they would have been in the world all the same. Good luck...x

So sorry to read this but also so excited for your future as a parent! Masses of luck for the adoption xx

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Lorita1984

Thankyou all for the lovely messages..... I will be back and hopefully will have a lovely update for you all and a pic of my little one xxxxx

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Tiddly1984 in reply toLorita1984

That would be fantastic...x

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ttcemmie

Sorry to hear this is your end of the road with IVF. It is a gruelling and soul-destroying process, and I completely understand protecting your mental health and getting out of it. I am pleased for you that you are starting the adoption route and I am excited for you to build your family. Best wishes for the future. x

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Shirazlover2013

Hi Lorita, I’m so sorry this journey has been such a struggle and ultimately not blessed you with a baby. I really admire your resilience. I believe adoption can be a beautiful thing, it’s something that we’re considering too. I wish you all the best with this new path. It would be lovely to hear an update from you later down the line. Xx

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hannahkc

Hi Lorita, so sorry to hear your journey with ivf has been unsuccessful 💙Congratulations on deciding on adoption be great to hear how you get on 🙂xx

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Blue1986

So sorry to hear this. But, oh how you will make some little child happy, that makes me my heart melt. You are amazing for adopting, and I hope the process is smooth and quick.

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Dinah_lady

I have not followed your IVF journey but wanted to respond to your post.

Such great news that you have had the strength to make the decision to stop Ivf and decide to adopt. Wishing you the best of luck and much happiness x x

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RhinoCat

Sending love and hugs sweet pet 😘💖💐

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Lorita1984

You are all amazing... Thankyou so much for your kind words and encouragement ❤️ ❤️

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Sammy246

Hi lorita, I'm so sorry to hear about your journey with Ivf has come to an end but excited for you on your adoption quest. I pray everything goes well for you and you do get to complete your family with a baby on this journey. Best of luck xx

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Core

I’m so sorry it didn’t work out. Best of luck for your next part of your journey though, it’s great you already have your next steps in place. I’m sure you’ll make fantastic parents xx

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