Have I tested too early?

Hi all

So today I'm 9 days past a 5 day transfer and got a negative test result this morning. Last round I got my period the equivalent of tomorrow so wanted to prepare myself mentally in case it started before my test day again as it broke my heart a bit! My clinic suggest testing on 24th which would be a full 14 days after my transfer.

A lot of ladies seem to get their positive result by now so feeling like that's probably this round done and dusted? All this waiting is awful!

Xx

[Becbythesea]

Hi, I'm in the same boat, I tested day 8 after a 5 day transfer and it was negative, I wanted to prepare myself although I'm now too scared to test again to see if negative after already having two unsuccessful including miscarriage. I'm going in for clinic blood test friday but trying to prepare myself prob not worked. Having said that the clinic will probably tell you it's too early to test and wait for official day as you can get false negatives too early. Good luck to you!

[Hidden in reply to Becbythesea]

it's agonising isn't it?! Best of luck for Friday! Crossing my fingers for you!

[Becbythesea in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much, fingers crossed for you x

[Navy88]

Hi, I'm in exactly same boat as you. OTD on friday, had double FET on 10th Aug but tested this morning and got negative although took long time for clearblue digital to decide on result which im clinging to tiny bit of hope that may mean there was something there, although who knows. Hate the wait. Fingers crossed for your BFP xx

[Hidden in reply to Navy88]

Hopefully your results change on Friday! Best of luck. Hoping it's just too early for both of us but have a pretty strong feeling that this is how it's going to stay for me. Thankfully we managed to freeze an embryo this round so at least it's not all over!xx

[Navy88 in reply to Hidden]

Fingers crossed for both of us 🤞 I'm tying to stay positive as currently no sign of AF and like you I started spotting by 8dpt last time, It's so hard and so many stories of people having BFP results by this point feels like it must be all over. This is our last go so just gotta wait it out 🙈 xx

[Hidden in reply to Navy88]

Sending lots of positive vibes your way lovely! I have cramps which are starting to feel like my period is ending route but who knows 🤷‍♀️xx

[JeSs8819]

My test date was the 17th (Monday) I tested the day before and the result was so so faint I ended up using a digital one too Just to make sure it wasn’t me just wanting to see a line. If it was this faint that close to testing date yours has plenty of time to change. I tested after 5 days and it really upset me. Don’t read to much in to it at the moment. Fingers crossed your test date brings you a BFP 😁 xx

[Hidden in reply to JeSs8819]

aw congrats on your bfp!! Fingers crossed mine can swing the other way too!xx

[JeSs8819 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you very much. Keep the faith hun. We are all so different. I saw people testing and thought they are 6 days and line is strong. Mines obviously not worked. Only to find out it has eeeeekkkkkk. Everything crossed for you xx

[Becbythesea]

How did you guys get on if you had your test days? Sadly it was another negative for me. Would like to have further tests inc nk cells but consultant I'm with doesn't support that!

[Hidden in reply to Becbythesea]

Hi lovely, so sorry to hear you got a negative result! Heartbreaking isn't it. My period arrived on Thursday so I'm out of the game as well. Feeling very sad still. Hope you're doing OK. Have you tried speaking to a different clinic? Could be worth exploring. I'm going to ask if there are any tests worth doing at this stage that might work out why. How many transfers have you had so far? Sending virtual hugs your way!xx

[Becbythesea]

Sorry to hear it didn't work for you either, really is a rubbish rollercoaster! That was my third embryo transfer. I'm going to ring round lots of places to see what other tests can be done and yes wouldn't it be great if we could be told why?! Good luck to you x