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Hi lovelies, OTD is tomorrow and I’m going out of my mind. I feel sick to the stomach with nerves and I just am relentlessly replaying the 2 possible outcomes in my head, over and over. I’ve not had any symptoms really so I literally have no clue what the result will be. So nervous 🤯

Any tips to get through the last day in one piece?

Love to all xxxx

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Elly1685

Try and keep busy!

I’m currently 7dp5dt and also losing my mind too. The2WW is just so cruel isn’t it!

From what I’ve read symptoms don’t actually mean anything. People who have had symptoms have had bfp or bfn and equally people who haven’t had symptoms have also had a bfp or bfn.

Go for a nice walk, watch a film, meet up with a friend for a cuppa and chat. Do some little jobs around the house and try and stay away from google!

Good luck for tomorrow

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Millbanks in reply toElly1685

Ugh it’s so hard! Good luck to you too! Thanks for the tips - I’m going to try to distract myself xxx

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Brookes1509

It’s a very difficult wait but there isn’t much you can do. Make the time pass by walking, listen to some music, buy yourself something nice ... anything that will take your mind of it

Easier said then done I hear you! Been there and done that. Be kind to yourself whatever that means to you xxx

Best of luck x

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Millbanks in reply toBrookes1509

Thank you. You are right that I can’t affect the outcome now so just trying to balance my brain...

Hope all is good with you xxx

Deep breaths! Hope you can find something nice to do today to treat yourself and try and keep occupied. Wishing you masses of luck xx

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Millbanks in reply to

Thank you! I’ve written myself a distraction list and will find a nice film to watch tonight. Hope you’re well lovely xxx

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KiboXX

Just wanted to wish you all the best of luck for tomorrow. Try and keep busy today, I know it’s impossible to though! Get a nice long walk in later in the day so you get some sleep tonight ❤️ xxx

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Millbanks in reply toKiboXX

Thank you 😊 it’s so hard, especially 2nd FET - it’s definitely not as enjoyable as the first one in the “bubble”... this week has been soooooo long xx

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Millbanks in reply toKiboXX

Hope you’re pregnancy is going well xx

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KiboXX in reply toMillbanks

Thanks lovely! All going well here ☺️

Well you’ve done amazing to hold off testing until now! I really hope tomorrow brings good news for you, sending you a big hug for the morning ❤️ xxx

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Millbanks in reply toKiboXX

It’s been the hardest thing ever! But also I’m just so scared to test 🤯💖

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KiboXX in reply toMillbanks

You’ve got this 💪🏻❤️ xx

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Luna_79

Ooh it’s so hard but you’ve done so well , 1 more day, keeping everything crossed , just keep yourself as busy as possible 💕 xx

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Millbanks in reply toLuna_79

Argh one more day xxx

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Millbanks in reply toLuna_79

Sorry to hear your news this morning. Hope you’ve got some nice things to comfort you xx

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