More heartbreak

[CBOO1]

Hi All, I need to calm myself down but I don’t know how so any advice would be great! We are currently in Greece doing our second ICSI cycle, all was going so well, everything has been different this time &So positive - we had 4 eggs collected & yesterday our update was that all 4 had fertilised, due to go in to clinic tomorrow for an update & possible transfer. Then we found out that our beloved cat - my surrogate baby - had been hit & killed by a car yesterday afternoon, we moved house a few months ago & unfortunately all the fields out the back were not as tempting as the wood across a very fast road &

It was just a complete accident. I am beyond heartbroken & cant stop crying. I need to pull myself together for tomorrow for the sake of my possible babies but I just don’t know what to do with myself. 😢

[Livinginhope2019]

Being a cat mummy myself I feel your pain and am so sorry for your loss. There is nothing I can say to make you feel better but I wanted to send you a big hug xxx

[CBOO1 in reply to Livinginhope2019]

Thank you, it’s so horrible 💔 give your cat an extra big squeeze today xx

[Lowamh]

I’m so sorry about your cat, pets really are precious. I hope this cycle works out for you xxx

[CBOO1 in reply to Lowamh]

Me too, something good has to happen now 😢 xx

[Keepingfaith85]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear about your precious cat. We love our cats like babies too and although we live in a quiet area one of our cats got hit by a car outside our house and died. It's so horrible. He was defending his territory and chasing another cat away apparently. They do just love to roam and although you go back through it all and all the 'what ifs' it is just terrible bad luck and you have to remember that they loved being outside roaming and it's just a terrible accident. I'm sure your kitty knew that they were well loved and had a wonderful life with you 💕 Sending you lots of love

[Debrakay1704]

Oh no that is terrible. Just try if you can to focus on the days ahead. Sending so much love. Xx

[Cinderella5]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved fur baby, so devastating! Sending hugs and Ive got my fingers crossed for your little embryos.xx

[JojoWash]

Aww so sad 😞

[Lots8788]

Oh hun sorry to hear that xx big big hugs to you xx hope this cycle works for you and good luck

[CBOO1]

Thank you everyone, we get so attached to our fur babies don’t we! We had our embryo transfer yesterday, I have been trying to hold it together as much as I can but every now & then the tears come so easily & I just can’t stop them - even writing this! We go home tomorrow which I am dreading as I know that’s when I’m going to feel her loss so much but I know she loved me, my Mum always used to say cats normally are so aloof & go to whoever feeds them but she really loves you so I know she wouldn’t want me to be sad, it’s just easier said than done. My phone is full of photos of her that I can’t look at without sobbing yet but I guess that’s going to take time. Lots of positive thoughts for our 2 little embabies now 💖💖 xx