9dp5dt and day before OTD 😳 feeling like mystic meg... here we go again 🙄

[RhinoCat]

Firstly, to those of you on this journey.... you are totally awesome and strong and brave! 🏅

Even when this sh&£ is hard and hurts like hell, we rise and try again!

Not everyone has the guts to try this. 💪🏻

You can do this! 🤩

So glad and sad to be nearing another OTD. 🤪😏

There’s something nice in this limbo land of ‘maybe just maybe’. Nothing worse that a Big F’n Negative to smack ya back to the reality of the ivf journey eh. Much nicer to not know and dream for a bit.... even if it is for 10 days only.

I’ve never been pregnant and might never be but At least I’ll never look back and regret trying.

OTD is tomo and comparing my symptoms to the last time, the outcome will probably be the same. 😔

The wait is hard but the negative confirmations are harder.

Symptoms this cycle by the day:

Day 1,2not much tired

Day 3 cramps tired

Day 4 usual swollen 🍈 🍈 tired

Day 5 same

Day 6 sore head morning and sore head night

Day 7 cramps early morning tired

Day 8 cramps tired

Day 9 cramps and Aunt Flo gut gurgles (think she’s getting angry now and just wants to come)

Mostly feeling normal but like Aunt Flo is building if that makes sense. Sure, it was fun while it lasted.😆

So to those in the 2ww I say:

enjoy it. Relax in the maybe. Time enough to feel the pain when the day of testing comes.

For those of you waiting to go again :

fill up those laughter tanks with living in the spaces before your next cycle. Go do fun things and drink coffee whilst you can .

To anyone giving up on the whole thing: take a break and do what your heart desires.

Love and hugs to all this day,

As we say here in Northern Ireland

‘May the sun shine warm upon your face’ today.

Rhinocat x 🦏🐈

[Corchi]

❣️💛❣️💛❣️💛best of luck honey

[RhinoCat in reply to Corchi]

Thanks pet 😘

[Cinderella5]

Hey Rhinocat! I was literally just thinking about you and you popped up! Well done on the net testing, what a legend.....you know what Im like?! I really hope you are wrong about OTD, Im rooting for you lovely! Hoping you have the luck of the Irish!! Ha ha haxxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Cinderella5]

Awh thanks Cinderella 😘💐💖 not so certain of the luck of the Irish but I can confirm I’ve the crazy of a leprechaun 🍀 😝

[Cinderella5 in reply to RhinoCat]

Ha ha ha I think I knew that already.......the charm of the Irish too!xx

[Niki_B]

Best of luck for tomorrow! Cramps and feeling like AF is about to rear her ugly head is a good sign! Fingers crossed 🤞🤞💕

[RhinoCat in reply to Niki_B]

Thanks Nicki 💐😘

[XxjustmexX]

Wishing you your bfp for tomorrow ☺️ xx

[RhinoCat in reply to XxjustmexX]

Bless ya 😘💐

[Hidden]

Wishing you the best with OTD, truly hope it’s a BFP. I’m afraid AF & early pregnancy symptoms are the same & impossible to tell apart. It’s another cruel twist on this already difficult journey. Each BFP I have had I have been convinced AF was coming ( and I had cramps & backache everytime) I definitely think you are not out. xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Hidden]

I’d need a wee miracle right about now 🙏🏻😘💐💖

[Lou9]

Wishing you lots of luck 🍀

[RhinoCat in reply to Lou9]

Ta 😘💐

[treezuk]

Good luck I wrote my last two embryos off as I’d have so many failures.... got pregnant with twins

Keep your chin up x

[RhinoCat in reply to treezuk]

Twins would be great 🤣😘😘😘😘💐💐💐💐💐

[treezuk in reply to RhinoCat]

Hard work but so thankful to have them both , and their older brother adores them x

[PollyPocket0]

Best of luck for tomorrow! 🤞🤞🤞

[RhinoCat in reply to PollyPocket0]

Thanks so much Pollypocket 😘💐

[Solly-44]

Wishing you loads of luck, you’ve summed up the 2ww perfectly! Hoping for some great news from you tomorrow xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Solly-44]

Can’t guarantee it’ll be positive but, there’ll be news 🤣😘💐🙏🏻💖💐

[kathgibson22]

What a great message, wishing you all the luck I can , fingers and toes and legs crossed this is your time 🤞😘 xx

[RhinoCat in reply to kathgibson22]

Now don’t be falling ! I’ll be expecting those fingers etc crossed until

The morning 😘💐 thanks kg 😘💐💖

[Itsalongjourney26]

Thinking of you tomorrow ❤️❤️ Everything crossed for you x

[CLDxxx]

Sending you lots of luck 🤞💕

[Chel91]

All the best tomorrow hun, got everything crossed for you 🤞💕 Your willpower is amazing!! xxxx

[Libsie3103]

Sending you lots of luck & have everything crossed it’s the BFP you so deserve xx

[Westielover16]

Wishing you all the best luck for tomorrow. My only BFP, I was convinced it hadn’t worked but was proven wrong on OTD. Unfortunately it was a miscarriage but try and remember each round is completely different so you never know.

Will keep everything crossed for you!!! 🤞🤞

[Ranchu90]

You haven’t mentioned anything about spotting and think like these that are more scary in out sick minds 😂 so definitely you are not out. That is wonderful I would say!

Good luck, awaiting for good news tomorrow 🤗🤞❤️🌈

Lots of baby dust!

[PenguinBlue]

Good luck for tomorrow!!!! Xx

[Hopingforarainbow]

Wishing you the best of luck for tomorrow!! I have everything crossed 🤞🏻xx

[KiboXX]

I’m sending you the luck in the world for tomorrow, I would love to wake and see a bfp post from you 💕

All I will say is the only thing I had on my last tww was that Aunt Flo feeling and it definitely wasn’t her coming so don’t rule yourself out just yet! Who knows what the morning will bring. Big hugs and lots of love for your test xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to KiboXX]

What will be will be 😘💐

[L2213]

Just wanted to wish you well and let you know I’ll be rooting for you tomorrow 😊 I hope that you have some good news. Look after yourself and good luck!!!xxxxx

[RhinoCat in reply to L2213]

Thanks so much 😘💐 I’ve done nothing but watch tv today , im

Good to myself 🤩💐😘

[L2213 in reply to RhinoCat]

Glad to hear it 😊 you are almost there now! I’ll be keeping everything crossed for you 🤞💕xxxx

[Laura3101]

Good luck tomorrow, I am OTD too in the morning and also feeling like I have Zero idea if it has worked or not! X

[RhinoCat in reply to Laura3101]

That’s a better place than feeling Aunt Flo is five minutes away 🤣😘💐😘💖💐 hugs and best wishes to ya! Today is going so slowly 😘💐

[Rainbow_leopard]

I am also 9dp5dt and your9 days sound almost exactly the same as mine, though I have had a very tiny bit of spotting. My OTD isn’t until Sunday though. Best of luck for tomorrow! X

[RhinoCat in reply to Rainbow_leopard]

Oh wow! Was yours frozen transfer? I was 12 days last time but 10 this time with fresh transfer. I’ve had zero spotting of any kind . Hope you’re resting and looking after yourself 😘💐💐💖💖💖💖🙏🏻

[Rainbow_leopard in reply to RhinoCat]

No fresh! I don’t know why it’s so long it was the same last time for my fresh transfer too. I spoke to them today about my cramps but they still said to wait until Sunday. It’s so weird but I’m going to stick with it anyway. I hope you are too. Xx

[JoP32]

Wishing you the very best of luck for tomorrow RhinoCat. If it helps, with my one & only BFP from ivf I had zero symptoms, so lack of them doesn’t mean it’s bad...

will be thinking of you and keeping all the fingers crossed 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 Xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to JoP32]

Such a strange process the whole thing. I just wish progesterone had no symptoms , such a head pickler. If I’m wrong I’ll eat my 🎩

[Kitty230515]

Fingers crossed it’s a positive outcome for you tomorrow. Xxx

[RhinoCat in reply to Kitty230515]

Thanks kitty 🙏🏻😘💐

[Olivia11]

Wishing you all the best and hope you get your BFP!! X X X x

[RhinoCat in reply to Olivia11]

Thanks so much 😘💐💖

[KayCan]

Thinking of you and keeping 🤞 xx

[RhinoCat in reply to KayCan]

Appreciate it 😘💐💖🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[London_Lady1]

Thank you for making me smile with your message. The whole process is crappy, but we have to stay positive and look on the bright side of things. I hope tomorrow you get your BFP and can take your first step on a different journey. xx

[Finchee27]

Good luck for tomorrow!! Fingers crossed you get a strong BFP!!! I'll be right behind you testing on Friday. Lol. What will be, will be I guess. xx

[RhinoCat in reply to Finchee27]

All the best Finchee 😘💐💖

[Mara84]

Best of luck dear ❤️

[RhinoCat in reply to Mara84]

😘

[ttcemmie]

Lots of love RhinoCat. You're not out 'til you're out... Sending the very best of wishes. x

[RhinoCat in reply to ttcemmie]

😘

[Picalilli99]

Lovely post as always. Got everything crossed for good news for you tomorrow 🤞🤞. (From someone in the waiting group -will keep building the old laughter tank 😂 whilst gulping the coffee ☕️) 👍.Best of luck lovely xx

[strawberriesandcream]

Good luck! 🍀🍀🍀

[PurplePiggie]

Literally everything crossed that you get your positive result 😘😘 xx

[Gabrielagrazebrook]

Rhinocat good luck! What amazing advice u just gave xxx

[Peanutchips]

Everything crossed for you today RhinoCat! Thinking of you. Thanks for writing such a lovely post ❤️🍀🤞🏻 xxxx

[Sammy246]

Best of luck for today. I really pray you get your positive 🙏, your energy keeps alot of us going xx