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Literally no words 😒 😒 😒 πŸ’” πŸ’” πŸ’”

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Sunshine92

Oh Jessy πŸ˜” i feel like we’ve all travelled this emotional journey with you. The 2ww’s are horrible. The worst part of ivf in my opinion. You have definitely been to hell and back during it.

There are no words that could make you feel better at the moment. So i’m just going to send you a big squeezy virtual hug πŸ€— xxxxxxx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry Jessy! I know you were preparing for seeing a negative but it still hurts just the same. Lots of love and hugs.xx

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ttcemmie

So sorry Jessy. Awful awful result. I'm right there with you. There is nothing that can make it better. Really feel for you. Sending all my love and hugs. xxx

Hi Jessy1280,

I am feeling your pain and standing with you.I just had my 2nd fail 2 weeks ago.πŸ’”Big virtual hug to you.πŸ€—

Louise

Xxxx😘

Sorry sending love 😘

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Faith103

Sorry jessy. Seems like we are constantly waiting for the next hurdle xxxx be kind to yourself ❀️🧑

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HelenJudi1

I’m sorry xx

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Jessy1280

Thanks for the replies. Don't think I've recovered from my loss in December still. I was fully expecting this result today. Follow up appointment with the clinic by telephone later on. Like you guys I'm very tired of chasing this dream. I find it especially harder when there's nothing wrong with me and when I can get lots and lots of eggs but few to day 5. Totally draining. Praying I can do a FET as soon as the covid-19 situation permits. I know I might seem very OTT but that's born out of fear of never being a mum. I don't cope with the stress very well. Sincere apologies for my rants and negativity. Love to all xx

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Cinderella5β€’ in reply toJessy1280

Awww dont apologise for feeling negative or for ranting! We all need a safe space to get these feelings out and we cant be happy, strong and full of hope all the time! I completely understand you feeling tired. I feel this is a really tiring journey and with all treatment paused it feels like our next steps are so far away!! Hang on in there lovely, hopefully we will all get started again soon, the forum will never have been so busy once we all get going again!! Hang on in there!xx

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Faith103β€’ in reply toJessy1280

Don’t apologise for worrying we all do it...after this virus has gone and we are all able to carry on with our journeys lets give the world something to talk about. Let’s have an IVF BABY BOOM πŸ˜ŒπŸ˜€ xxxx

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LizzieBW

I'm so sorry for you, Jessy. I had been keeping up-to-date with reading everyone's posts on here and was so holding out hope for you xx

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Pinkpaw2

😒 sorry to be reading this Jessy xx

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Kurstx

So sorry sending lots of ❀️❀️ xx

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andromedae9

So sorry x x

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hannahkc

Hey Jessy, so sorry to read this X

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franathy

I'm really sorry, so devastating especially with the crappy situation we are in right now :-( big hugs xx

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Picalilli99

So sorry Jessy. This process is so gruelling. I totally understand the tired feeling you have described and also the anxiety around all this uncertainty due to COVID-19. I hope we are all able to move forward with our journeys sometime soon. In the meantime sending you a huge virtual hug. Take care lovely xxx

So sorry for your BFN, nothing we can say to make it better, but sending you hugs anyway xx

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