So many bfp around me!!!!

[Hopedream]

Omg I could scream!! So many people around me announcing pregnancy’s!!! Can’t help but feel so jealous and hurt.. especially when they’re from one night stands. One girl told me today while standing smoking 🥺🤬😳🤦🏼‍♀️

Sorry I needed a rant 🥺😞

[saraht23]

So sorry you’re experiencing this at such a stressful time. Keeping everything crossed you get your BFP soon, our OTD is the same day and I’ll be thinking of you x

[Hopedream in reply to saraht23]

Oh is it, how u feeling? I feel like I’m going crazy!!! Xx

[saraht23 in reply to Hopedream]

I’m feeling pretty good now I’ve stopped reading so much into every twinge or cramp. I’m 9dp5dt today but it still all feels very alien to me as this is the first time we’ve ever made it to transfer. It’s strange having hope of being pregnant after such a long time. How are you feeling? X

[Hopedream in reply to saraht23]

I get my blood test day 9. Have u done a test at home yet? I feel abit the same just so much hope.... one minute I think it won’t happen to me then I I think this is my turn I’m going to get BFP.... but I’m more negative than positive... trying not to be. Xxx

[EmGLA in reply to Hopedream]

I test the day after you guys on Tuesday! This is my first two week wait, I had cramps for the first few days but now I just feel normal again... hope we’re all lucky 🤞🏼🤞🏼

[Hopedream in reply to EmGLA]

Me 2 🤞🏼 I honestly really do!! I can’t help myself think I’m going to have to test tomorrow 🤦🏼‍♀️ Il only be 5dpt xx

[EmGLA in reply to Hopedream]

I haven’t allowed myself to buy any pregnancy tests until Sunday. I’ve even made my OH do the shopping so I’m not tempted. Have you had any symptoms?? X

[Hopedream in reply to EmGLA]

No symptoms at all... wish I did 😞 xx

[saraht23 in reply to Hopedream]

I don’t get a blood test, it’s just an at home test for me. I was losing the plot at the start of the week so tested 7dpt and got a positive, same again 8dpt but a bit darker, although my husband refuses to acknowledge I may actually be pregnant until we test on Monday. He just doesn’t want us to get our hopes up after such a rollercoaster. I cramped on 3dpt and 4dpt then nothing then mild cramping restarted 6dpt so I was convinced it was all over. I only tested so I could get it over with and wallow in my own misery for a bit x

[Hopedream in reply to saraht23]

Aw amazing!! Lots of baby dust ready for Monday! I should wait till Saturday (7dpt) but I really don’t think I can xx

[EmGLA in reply to saraht23]

Oh wow congratulations!! Let’s hope we’re as lucky as you. I have to do a home test on Monday and then I guess we only get a blood test if it’s positive. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for confirmation on Monday for you!! X

[Picalilli99]

Rant away lovely! xx

[Raybeeming]

I feel the same way literally everyone getting pregnant except for me is what it seems and it’s so frustrating.. but hopefully we both get our bfp soon 😩🙏🤞🏻

[RhinoCat]

Dear dear me 😩😤🤦🏼‍♀️

[Rainbowhope]

I struggle with feelings of jealousy everyday

[Hidden in reply to Rainbowhope]

It's so not fair is it?

[fertilitystruggle]

Hey Hopedream,

I completely understand how you feel.

In the past month I have had 3 pregnancy announcements and honestly each time I have cried my eyes out the minute I got home. One of the announcements was my own sister who has a child and wasn't even trying to conceive.

If you need to cry and let it out, just do it.

Your not alone 🥺 x

[Hidden in reply to fertilitystruggle]

One day at a previous job the line manager there who had had a miscarriage was in tears after she had found out someone else was pregnant and she wanted it for herself so you're not the only one who feels like that.

It does you good to have a good cry and let it all out.

[fertilitystruggle in reply to Hidden]

I completely agree,

So try and stay positive and it will happen for us all <3 xx

[ttcemmie]

Know so many people like this. Drives me crazy. Sure, universe, give babies to all the people with no jobs, not in relationships, literally on drugs, or who didn't even want children previously. That makes sense!

[Bizzlebee26]

I completely understand how you feel, I have had my friend and sister in law both announce in December around the same time our ICSI failed , both not even trying 😢. I’ve honestly never felt pain like it. Stay strong my fingers are crossed for you xxx

[Hidden in reply to Bizzlebee26]

It's always the way isn't it how these things always happen at the worst possible time!

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry pregnancy announcements are super tough. Don’t even get me started on smoking in pregnancy my sister in law smoked throughout her whole pregnancy & breastfeeding disgusting. Some people have no shame. Should be illegal it is in Canada. xxx