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Crappy start to the new year ๐Ÿ’”

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Caitlin-m
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OTD was today and it was a negative.

I knew deep down it would be. Have one child and had early symptoms whereas I felt nothing this time.

Still hurts though.

Havenโ€™t cried yet. Feeling numb at the moment.

Hope others have had a better start to 2020 than me!

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emmab178

All BFNs hurt and are shitty. Big hugs x

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toemmab178

definitely. Just got to hang in there and trust it will come good x

I am so sorry to hear that! I was in the same boat last month. Sending you big hugs!!!

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Thank you it. All hugs welcome today x

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Be kind to yourself and take care. X

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Core

So sorry to hear this I hope your year will get better xx

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toCore

Thank you - the only way is up I think! X

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Hope4another

I'm really sorry to hear this, sending kind thoughts x

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toHope4another

Thank you x

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Lowena

Hiya. Iโ€™m so sorry to hear your news. I too tested negative on the 30th. I really wasnโ€™t prepared for the feelings of loss. Luckily my OH had the insight to book a week away knowing we would need a holiday whichever way it went. Perhaps try and get away somewhere for a couple of days. โค๏ธ X

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toLowena

Sorry for your crappy outcome too. Holiday is a great plan. Where are you going? I am looking at ski weekends to take my hubby away. This time I think itโ€™s hit him really hard ๐Ÿ˜ฅ x

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Lowenaโ€ข in reply toCaitlin-m

Weโ€™ve just popped over to the Isle of Wight but skiing sounds like a great plan. Good luck with your future plans xx

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toLowena

That sounds like just the ticket x

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Lots8788

So sorry to hear that. Bug hugs xx

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toLots8788

Thank you. All hugs gratefully received. X

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Lavender96

So sorry, BFNs are always difficult. Fingers crossed the year gets better for you! Sending hugs xx

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toLavender96

Thank you xx

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Frussy

Such a shtitty news after so many hopes , so sorry to hear that but just take time , cry ๐Ÿ˜ข f need and be kind to yourself. Got my bfn last year in July and still look back on photos and cry , Good bless all of us with sweet babies ๐Ÿ‘ถxxx

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toFrussy

Thank you for your kind words. Doing ok/hanging in there x

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Littlepeax

โ™ฅ๏ธ so sorry, it's so horrible ๐Ÿ˜ช xxx

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Caitlin-mโ€ข in reply toLittlepeax

Isnโ€™t it just. ๐Ÿ’” hanging in there x

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