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Today I feel like it’s the end of the world! After a 2 embryo transfer and testing positive I was on top of the world but Thursday I started bleeding and today on what should I have been my 6w1d scan there is nothing to be seen. Not sure where We go from here as we have no frozen embryos in storage.

Thank you all for your support. Baby dust to you all xx💕

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aamiller405

I'm so sorry.. I had an early loss too and its devastating. We were lucky to have frosties left though. But my advice is to take some time to come to terms with the loss first before you make any decisions on what to do next.. Again so sorry for your loss. Love to you xox

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toaamiller405

Thank you, it the pitts isn’t it. Sending you hugs xx

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry. Absolutely devastating. We have been there before so have some understanding. The highs then lows are so emotionally exhausting. Make sure you take time to look after yourselves and grieve your sad loss, you don’t need to make any decisions right now. Sending you love and hugs xxx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toPicalilli99

Thank you, it’s mentally draining what we put ourselves through. At least this time it was complete and incomplete like it was before xxx

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Core

So so sorry to read this 😢 can’t even begin to imagine how devastated you must feel xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toCore

Thank you, I’m so pleased you got your bfp xxx

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Mara84

I’m so sorry, being through miscarriage myself and I know how you feel.

Sending my love xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toMara84

Thank you, how is your 2ww going? Xxx

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Mara84 in reply toLivinginhope2019

I was very anxious yesterday so took a test ( 5 days post transfer) it was negative... I keep telling myself it’s too early but deep down I know this time we are not lucky. I’m already thinking of second round of IVF...

hope you are felling better dear. By the way did they give any clue that why you had miscarriage? Xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toMara84

The whole journey messes with your mind doesn’t it. Don’t give up hope. I feel calmer today, had a good cry and a few siestas. My clinic is in Spain so they don’t know yet, with it being the weekend, it was a private scan that I’d booked as instructed by Spain for the viability scan so no clue. This is my second miscarriage, and we said we weren’t going to get so excited this time but it’s so hard not to get carried away with yourself

Take care of yourself, will be thinking of you xxx

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Leigh2244

So sorry to hear this, it’s so hard when you get your BFP only for it to be taken away. I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks so totally understand how you feel.

Take time for yourself and then you can decide what’s next. It can be such a long journey but hopefully we will get there in the end x

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toLeigh2244

Thank you, this is my second miscarriage but it doesn’t make it any easier. We can only hope and pray we get there in the end and know that we tried all we could xxx

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penman90

Awww bless you. I am so so sorry for your loss ❤️ sending all the love in the world xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply topenman90

Thank you xxx

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Skippy1982

Sorry to hear this😞sending hugs xxx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toSkippy1982

Thank you xx

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Kitcat12

😞 I'm so sorry for your loss, take time to look after yourself and to grieve x

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toKitcat12

Thank you xxx

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louisajane80

So sorry to hear this. Life can cruel. Hope you’re doing ok x

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Livinginhope2019 in reply tolouisajane80

Thank you, it sure can xxx

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Lots8788

So So sorry to hear this xx 💕💕

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toLots8788

Thank you so much xxx

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Shirazlover2013

I’m sorry, this is so cruel for you. Like this journey isn’t hard enough 😩 I can’t even imagine what you’re going though. Wishing you all the strength in the world for the coming weeks xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toShirazlover2013

Thank you, a lot of ugly crying 😭 but I’ll get there xxx

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Cinderella5

I'm so very sorry to see your update! Absolutely devastating for you. Massive love and hugs.xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toCinderella5

Thanks Cinderella, hope you are doing ok xxx

So sorry to hear this. Sending love x

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toPrayingforafamily

Thank you so much xxx

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry, this must have been just devastating 😔. Thinking of you xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toKyell2

Thank you so much xxx

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Millbanks

Massive hugs to you. What an absolute load of crap 😣💖💖💖

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toMillbanks

Thank you so much and yes it is xxx

I'm so sorry to hear this,I know how devastating it can be. Take care of yourself xx

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Thank you so much xxx

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this hun. Been there and it so devastating. Take good care of urselves. Xx

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Livinginhope2019 in reply toDreamingofbaby

Thank you so much xxx

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Tryagain45

I'm so so sorry to read this sad update. Please take care....sending.lots of hugs xx

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Livinginhope2019

Thank you, hope you are doing ok xxx

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sadievalentie

Hi there! How are you? I hope you are feeling better now. I am really sorry for what you are going through. It's not easy to cope with this loss. It takes a lot of strength to try and when something looks positive, your hopes are also high. But then it ends up as a failure and you are devastated. I have felt like that for 10 years. It took me 10 years to find a treatment and a clinic to make it work for me. I hope next time it works out for you. Good luck! Stay blessed. Take care. Bye!

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Livinginhope2019 in reply tosadievalentie

Hi, I’m doing ok, have my off days as you will know and haven’t given up yet. I have a consultation in January with an immunologist as the doctors seem to think it’s my immune system that is the problem. Thank you for your lovely message, hope you are well. Best wishes xx

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Alyssa123

Hi there! I hope you are feeling better. It's not over. What if it didn't work this time? Try harder next time. Sometimes the problem is not with us. It's with the place we are visiting for our treatment. During my journey, I went through a lot of failed cycles. But then someone told me to change the clinic and that was the thing that changed everything for me. It made things so much better for me. So try that, maybe it can help you as well. You still have some other options on the table to choose from. I hope this helps you. Take care. Stay blessed. Good luck. Bye!

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LorrieWalden

Hi! How are you? It feels like the end of the world, but it's not. It's not easy to make it work, but you will have to. You need to stay strong for the baby. I am really sorry for what you are going through. But I hope you understand that good thing don't come without hard work. So think of the baby like that, and no doubt having a baby is a blessing. The most beautiful thing in the world. I will pray that things get easier for you. Best of luck. My blessings are with you. Take good care of yourself. Goodbye!

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