Emotional support well needed 😭 frozen transfer advice

[MrsH17]

I am such an idiot ... tested at 5days past a frozen 5 day transfer. So many of them all negative 😭 feeling so upset have cried all day.

Strangely had a positive yesterday!! will up load picture if I can but must have a been a faulty test? Everyone I have done after has been stark white negative 😢

Am I out of luck? xXx

[Faith103]

5 days past transfer is still very early I would wait until at least 14 days after xxxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

Could it be down to the time you took the tests? I mean was the positive from your first wee in the morning and the negatives from later in the day? It's still early days, hope it's the real deal for you xxx

[MrsH17 in reply to MissSaoPaulo]

It was my second. Not sure if you can see the photo I uploaded? Xxx

[Katbaby19]

I had a strong positive first thing in Morning after 10 days and then a faint one the next day in afternoon so time of the day does count and 5 days is too early. Hold off till about day 8 at least honey

[MrsH17]

Thanks for responding to me. I have just tested again BFN. I just know in myself it hasn’t worked 💔 gonna try to forget about it for a few days xXx

[Jessy1280]

Am I the only one that sees a really feint second line? X

[MrsH17 in reply to Jessy1280]

Hi Jessy, the line was so clear for me to see I was so happy but every test after this has been stark white negative 🤷‍♀️😔 xXx

[GELL18 in reply to Jessy1280]

I see it too

[Jessy1280]

Don't lose hope yet. Its waaaay too early. Trigger is only now just leaving your system probably. I tested 2dp5dt and got negative. Now day 14 and I'm totally pregnant. I was so convinced I was out I saw a counsellor even. Please don't give in yet xx

[MrsH17 in reply to Jessy1280]

That is lovely news ... congratulations ☺️

Thanks for the positivity 😘

I didn’t have a trigger this time as FET. xXx

[aamiller405]

It's too early for a BFP.. If you look up what happens after transfer.. Generally HCG only starts being produced on 6dp.. So then it will be a day or a few days after that before tests pick it up.

I get you wanted to test early.. Im on 3dp5dt and already climbing the walls xo

[MrsH17 in reply to aamiller405]

I had period like pains Friday and Saturday ... hoping that was implantation as FET can be a bit later 🤞

Yes don’t do it to yourself. I regret it so badly

When you do test please let me know the results. Will also keep my fingers crossed for you 😊

xXx

[aamiller405 in reply to MrsH17]

I will do and thank you.. Hope your BFP starts to show up soon xox

[LHow81]

I tested early 5-7 days I don’t remember exactly now. It was negative thought I was out. OTD got a positive! It’s not over till the official date try to stay positive x

[MrsH17]

Thank you 😊 I am feeling more positive now

Congratulation on your successful round xxx

[dreams28]

I would use a frers early test. Super sensitive and i got my bfp from day 5. Good luck

[MrsH17 in reply to dreams28]

I have all negative. Congratulations 😃 xxx

[dreams28 in reply to MrsH17]

I used frer and it was a faint line so the test in your pic would not show. Have you used frer yet? Also all women are different. However I would say that by 9..10 days past something should defo show on frers.

Thanks for the congrats. My 1st success i got a positive 8 days, first time i tested with a sainsburys test. Then second success is when i got it on 5 dp5dt on a frers but faint. She is now 5 minths old. Good luck for otd. Your time will come!

[MrsH17]

*update*

Just tested again 12dpt it was negative. From what I have seen your pretty much out at this point.

I can’t sleep I do feel very upset. It’s been hard telling family it didn’t work. It’s also been such a draining 2WW. I have had two successful experiences and have two beautiful children from them so I am very lucky 🍀. My husband wants to do it again but I am unsure I can put myself through it not working.

My really close friend (knows I was having FET) and that I got a negative but sent me her positive the same day. I am really happy for her she is a great mum but I am finding it really hard not to get upset about it. I am literally down stairs at 4am crying 😢 she will be due when I would have been so it’s gonna be hard at times. Hopefully I can just move on. Maybe it was insensitive of her to let me know and to talk about it a lot!? I don’t know though as we are very close. I kind of wish she had waited a while to let me know but on the other hand she wouldn’t have wanted to be sneaky behind my back. It’s a difficult situation. I really want to say to her that I can’t talk about it at the moment with her but I don’t want to be selfish or make things awkward between us. She is always so supportive of me and I feel like I can’t not show an interest in her news even though it hurts me at the moment.

Would I recommend testing early!?

Not really. It doesn’t change the outcome and it cost you a fortune in pregnancy test and makes your 2WW even harder as your constantly hoping for a positive and been disappointed. At first I thought it allowed me to accept it earlier but really it didn’t and what was the point.

I hope you all get your BFP and if not now in the future.

Xxx

[Lots8788 in reply to MrsH17]

So sorry hun and big hugs to you. I don't think it's selfish at all to not want to talk about her positive at the mo. You come first. Xx

[MrsH17 in reply to Lots8788]

Thank you. You are right I am just gonna distance myself for a few days give me chance to get over the failed cycle and then I can move on 😊 xxx

[Lots8788 in reply to MrsH17]

😘😘xx