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Oh little embaby, why didn’t you implant? 😢

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OTD and BFN as expected. It never gets any easier does it? I will never know the fate of the cluster of perfect looking cells that were transferred inside me, why they were not destined for this life but I guess it wasn’t meant to be.

Sending love and hugs to other ladies on here who also got BFN’s this week. I hope you’re able to grieve and look after yourselves xx

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Jessy1280

I feel exactly the same. Big hugs. Its really hard to understand why good embryos don't implant. That's the bit I'm struggling with. Questioning whether there is actually something wrong with me. My OTD is Sunday. Ivf is REALLY bloody hard. Keep going x

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Sunshine92 in reply toJessy1280

I feel the same too. Every single test ive ever had has come back normal, but i’m convinced something is wrong .. it just has to be.

Not long to wait now lovely. Keep yourself busy. You are not alone xx

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Jessy1280 in reply toSunshine92

I'm thinking of having ERA test next. My cycles are about 30 days long so hoping this is the key. I know it's more money but there's no way I can deal with a third failure. It just makes me crumble every time x

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Sunshine92 in reply toJessy1280

I sound exactly the same as you. My cycles are also 30 days long, this sounds like a good plan. Wishing you the best of luck xx

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Italy300618

😔😥 so sorry to hear this, this journey is so unfair. Take some time for you lovely x

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Sunshine92 in reply toItaly300618

It is 😔 thank you x

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Livinginhope2019

I’m so sorry to hear this, sending you a big hug xxx

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londonrc

I’m so sorry to hear your news - it’s such a rollercoaster ride - not sure I have any great suggestions about how to get through this- just be kind to yourself and your partner and time will be a healer. Sending big hugs. Xx

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Farrri

M so sorry same feeling as yours... got negative result today

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Sunshine92 in reply toFarrri

Sending big hugs. I know how much pain you’re feeling right now 😔

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Farrri in reply toSunshine92

😭😭💔😭😭

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hifer

So so sorry to hear this. It’s so tough when there is no explanation! X

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Lorita1984

Im so sorry 😭♥️😭

I know how you feel... I transfered a Pgs tested embryo in supposidley receptive uterus and still bfn. No explanation.

Sending you hugs xxxxx

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Sunshine92 in reply toLorita1984

Oh lovely 😔 its just so devastating not knowing why it didnt happen. I can’t help but be so angry at my body that it consistently lets me down.

Sending you a big virtual hug xx

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everhopeful83

So sorry to read this ☹️sending you the biggest hugs💖xxx

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Core

So sorry to read this, sending you big hugs BFNs are so tough xx

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry to read it wasn’t good news. It’s just rubbish. Look after yourself and treat yourself this weekend xx

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