Bitter sweet 7+0 week update....🙃😭

[mushy19]

Currently sat in the EPU after waking up with pains on my left side again.. It was painful enough that I couldn’t ignore.

I have finally been scanned and was so pleased to see a strong healthy heartbeat💓 my baby measured exactly as it should but by the look on the sonographers face I knew all was not well.

I have fluid free around my left tube/ovary.... and she now suspects a ‘Heterotopic’ pregnancy... meaning one baby inside the womb and possibly one inside the tube. (We had two embryos transferred)

I have been told alllllll the worse case scenarios which can and can’t affect my healthy pregnancy... including a emergency laparoscopy 😩🥺😭😢

I’m so glad I came in.

I’m not to sure what to think at present, but I am trying to stay positive whilst waiting to see the gynaecologist and hear what they have to say.😩😭

Please keep your fingers crossed for us.. x

[everhopeful83]

I’m so sorry to read this & sending you lots of positive vibes✨❤️✨xxx

[lc3055]

Sending lots of love and praying for the best outcome xx

[MissSaoPaulo]

Got everything crossed for you xxx

[CLDxxx]

Ah so sorry to hear you’re going through this.

Hope you’re ok. So glad you went to EPU.

Amazing to have a strong heartbeat on one so try and stay strong too 💞thinking of you, sending lots of luck xxx

[Cinderella5]

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this! Got everything crossed for you. Lots of love.xx

[Rella22]

Hey Mushy,

Sending you lots of well wishes! A colleague of mine had the same thing. They ended up removing the baby outside and she went on to have a healthy pregnancy and delivery. Stay positive and praying for you in the meantime ❤️

[HelenJudi1]

I have my fingers crossed for you x

[mushy19]

Oooh ladies...🙃

I’m finally back home now and still none the wiser really about the fluid.

After the hospital gynaecologist contacted my private consultant they decided to leave things as they were and to re-scan in two days to see if things have got worse or fluid has been absorbed.

So another waiting game until such time. I’m pleased I wasn’t rushed into having a laparoscopy as I wasn’t prepared mentally for that.

Thankyou all for your kind words... please don’t uncross those fingers and toes just yet, we still need them x 😩😊

[CLDxxx in reply to mushy19]

Fingers crossed! Keep us updated xxx

[Kitcat12]

Thank goodness you went in to be scanned! I hope things get sorted for you and all is well with your little bean x

[Lots8788]

sending lots of positive vibes and really hope all ok x x

[LunaLovegood11]

Sending lots of luck xxx

[Hidden]

Good luck for your next scan. Thinking of you.x

[Skippy1982]

Fingers crossed for you Hun xxx

[Dreamingofbaby]

Hope all be ok Hun. Everything crossed 🤞🤞☺️xx

[JojoWash]

Wishing you so much luck xx

[mushy19]

Still a bit numb right now... but I’ve been power reading on G👀gle to find some positive outcomes from similar situations.

Apparently a heterotopic pregnancy can be treated with minimum risk/disruption to the uterine pregnancy

I think the only thing comforting me right now is seeing that heartbeat going sooo strong. I know things can change for the worse but I also know once there is a healthy heartbeat we still have a good chance.

😩🙃

I’ll definitely have a update for you all on Wednesday x

[Cinderella5 in reply to mushy19]

I've been researching the same!! Thinking of you & really hoping you can give us a fabulous update!!😘xxx

[mushy19 in reply to Cinderella5]

🥺😢 I’ve been holding bk all day but you’ve finally made me fill up..... 😭that’s so sweet of you. It’s so nice to know others are rooting for us as well as us rooting for ourselves.

Thank you so much.. of course you’ll be the first to know whatever the outcome😩or management (as they doctor said) 🤭🥺the word ‘management’ sounded sooo serious..

[Cinderella5 in reply to mushy19]

Awww no, dont! You'll get me going too! I know what a hellish time you've had......hoping you get your happy ending! Management sounds ok from what I've been reading. Lots of love & hugs.xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to mushy19]

Hey, just checking in to see how you're doing?!xxx

[mushy19 in reply to Cinderella5]

Awe Thankyou... I’m feeling good today... not a ache or pain in sight!!! And I’ve really been checking lol ☺️ slightly nervous but looking forward to tomorrow... x

[Cinderella5 in reply to mushy19]

Glad to hear you are feeling ok!! Good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking about you!😘xxx

[mushy19 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thankyouuuu... 😘😘😘

[Shirazlover2013]

I hope all turns out well for this little fighter, fingers crossed for your next scan. Until then I hope you can get some rest and sleep xx

[mushy19 in reply to Shirazlover2013]

Exactly my thoughts... this Lil bean is a real fighter.

I’m about to have a early night as It’s been the most exhausting day. Thankyou for your wishes x

[Kyell2]

Oh my goodness this must be so stressful. Well done you for recognising that something wasn’t right and going in. I hope Wednesday brings good news 🤞🤞 xx

[mushy19 in reply to Kyell2]

Thanks kyell2... I actually feel quite proud of myself too as I could have sat and allowed things to get worse without realising.

Good or bad it’s always good to know where I stand.

I’m going to remain positive until Wednesday and be happy I have a lil fighter hanging in there with a heartbeat 💓 x

[Tryagain45]

Sending positive vibes...hugs...strength....and love xx

[Hope4040]

Everything crossed for you xxxx

[Rowly88]

Sending lots of love and keeping everything crossed for you xxx

[wildchild1989]

everything crossed for you hope everything turns out ok xx

[Hidden]

Hi Mushy,

I can only imagine what you're going through.

I've had 3 ectopic pregnancies in the past, so I know how stressful this wait can be, while doctors figure it out.

I really hope Wednesday brings you good news 🤞🤞

Stay strong for your little fighter!

xx

[CC2018]

I hope everything goes well for you xx

[Stephybivf]

Awh mushy sending u lots of love, hope everything goes ok for you 😘😘xx