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Hello All,

Unfortunately our FET failed. It's a BFN this morning. I stayed strong in not testing early. But I kind off knew the result. Maybe it's not time for us yet 😔. Now just need to wait for the body to do what it needs to do. Do I stop all the tablets and pessaries?

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Core

So sorry to hear this 🙁 if it’s OTD day then yes my clinic tell me to stop all medications xx

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KriSho in reply toCore

Thanks Core!

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Lilly2019

Im so sorry to hear this. Is this your first attempt? know how you feel it’s my my otd today and I’ve not had a bfp last last few days of testing. I don’t even want to do the test as I don’t want to see another negative so currently sitting here holding my pee in waiting for my partner to wake up so I’m not doing it alone xx

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KriSho in reply toLilly2019

Hi Lily 2019, this was my first FET. I had a fresh cycle in May and that was a BFN. I was devastated but this time I think I had prepared myself for a BFN. I think I'm doing OK! I have no frozen embryos left so will need to start th cycle again.

But for now I have a list of things to look forward to so I'm holding on to that and forget about this for now.

It's a rollercoaster of emotions. I really hope your result is different one to mine!! Sending you lots of luck xx

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Lilly2019 in reply toKriSho

Yeah it certainly is, this was my 5th transfer and 3 ended in miscarriage and one failed. I also now have nothing left in the freezer and decided to take a break from it now and have a think about what we want to do going forward. It was a bfn. ☹️Xxx

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KriSho in reply toLilly2019

Wow!! You have had a really tough journey. Hats of to you for being so strong. You are awesome. Don't let the BFN get you down. Sending you lots of hugs and hope you have all the support you need. But if you need to talk I'm here too xxx

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KriSho in reply toLilly2019

I have just phoned the clinic and gave them the news too. They asked me if I wanted to go into the next cycle (1 cycle left) or have a review appointment. I have asked for a review appointment and see where we go from there.

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Lilly2019 in reply toKriSho

It’s been a bit tough but I just keep thinking of all the positives I have in my life and trying to consentrate on that. I wimped out and emailed mine as didn’t want to say the words. Good luck for your review. Same goes if you want to chat xxxx

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amandac84

I’m so sorry to read this, sending hugs xx

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KriSho in reply toamandac84

Thank you ♥️

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Livinginhope2019

So sorry, sending you a big hug xx

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KriSho in reply toLivinginhope2019

Thank you 🤗

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HowManyMiles

BFN here too, sorry for your sadness.xox

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KriSho in reply toHowManyMiles

Hi so sorry to hear your news too. Our time will come. Keep faith xx

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Jonesjp

So sorry to read this hunny, bfp never get any easier, sending you much love x x x

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KriSho in reply toJonesjp

Thank you ♥️

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