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The most expensive water in This world is a tear it’s made of 1% water and 99% feelings think before you hurt someone .I seriously wish people would engage there brains before they open there mouths .Sorry ladies I’m feeling like a negative nancy today xx

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Rella22

Hi there,

I’ve followed lots of your posts here and you’re not a negative Nancy. We all have our days. Life keeps throwing us curve balls and we just have to learn which way to duck.

Hope you’re okay! Sending lots of love ❤️

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Noah1981 in reply toRella22

Thank you hunny xx

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Solly-44

Oh love, I’m sorry someone’s upset you. Sending big hugs, you’re so close now & were all behind you here xx

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Noah1981 in reply toSolly-44

I’m really struggling today Solly 2 days from test day and I have my bosses daughter Inlaw flaunting her pregnancy at every given chance today I always try to be positive and I believe in lifting people up than crushing people’s dreams I’m a real sensitive Sally in general but today I’ve hit a low and I’ve not even tested yet I’ve learned today that my real world evolves horrible people on this virtual world of infertility forum I feel like I belong and if I could hug you all i would.The reality today is it hurts more when you have to pretend that it doesn’t 😢😢😢😢 xx

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Cinderella5 in reply toNoah1981

Sorry to hear that! Pregnancy in your face is hard at the best of times but the 2ww is one of those times where you just dont need it on top of hormones. Hugs.xx

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Livinginhope2019

Sending you big hugs xx

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Noah1981 in reply toLivinginhope2019

Xx

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Tiddly1984

It’s ok to have a bad day. Hoping you get your moment and it all changes for you in 2 days time....x

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Noah1981 in reply toTiddly1984

Thank you that means a lot xxx

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Dream76

I wish you all the best for the test day. Your thought is so deep.

My first IUI failed last month. I have accepted that failure but really think at times, what will be, will be.

Don’t stress too much. You had more than one follicle, so you have good chances.

Wish you good luck.

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Noah1981 in reply toDream76

Thank you darling xxx

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Lavender96

There’s nothing wrong with having a negative day, we’ve all been there. Sometimes it’s good to get it off your chest.

Got my fingers crossed for your test day 🤞🏼 x

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Noah1981

THank you xxx

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Lots8788

Lots of hugs to you xx

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Noah1981 in reply toLots8788

Xxxx

Hello lovely,sorry to hear your having a bad day and that is totally normal so don't beat yourself or apologise,you are going through so much and are incredibly strong, I've been having lots of burst into tears randomly days hence why I've been awol for a bit but putting it down to hormones!!

You take care of you and fingers crossed xxx

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Noah1981

Thank you I hate this feeling it’s so not me xxx

in reply toNoah1981

Everyone has times they feel like that so it's not just you.

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Hanbee33

Sorry you’re having a bad day. Think is totally understandable though the 2ww is such a difficult time. Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🍀🤞x x

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Noah1981 in reply toHanbee33

Thank you x

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Stephybivf

Sending virtual hugs to you lovely xx everyone is allowed a down day, be kind to yourself xx keeping everything crossed for you xxx

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Noah1981

THANK you xx

Aw, sorry to hear you’ve had a bad day. It’s completely understandable though, especially with the stress of the 2ww on top of someone being an insensitive soul!

It’s extremely difficult to switch off from seeing pregnant women around you and babies when it’s all you dream of having. Your time is just around the corner though,’I’m sure of it. Don’t let other idiots get you down. You’re stronger than you think you and have shown nothing but positivity to this forum - you’ve been a blessing for others here & a huge help.

Xxx

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Noah1981 in reply toHopesanddreams1987

Awwwh thank you you’ve brought a lump to my throat xxx

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Kat_15

Sending you big hugs. 🤗 xxx

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Noah1981

Thank you xxx

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Core

Hope you’re feeling better today this journey is so tough xx

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Noah1981 in reply toCore

Yes more positive today thank you xx

The point is what's stupid and trivial to one person isn't to another as we all have different experiences that affect what upsets us and what doesn't.

It hurts doesn't it when you really want something and you feel it's shoved in your face at every turn and feel like its done on purpose just to upset you.

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Yes because I’d never do it x

in reply toNoah1981

Some people are just self centred and don't realise they have opportunities in life that lots of others haven't and most of the time they don't care if these things come across as hurtful.

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