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Tested early... think I'm out 💔

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Took a test this morning at 12dp3dt. Bfn. Could still be a bit early but prepared for the worst now. I know it's not over until it's over, but it looks like first FET has failed.

No beginner's luck for me, so will try again as soon as possible.

Good luck to everyone on their 2ww and hoping for some good news, every bfp here warms my heart xxx

Update: tested otd and still negative. Thank you ladies for your support, I will try again!

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Lolepops

I am so sorry . However it’s not over until your test date says so . I understand why you would want to be prepared it’s like torture . Big hugs to you xxxx

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Rach82 in reply to Lolepops

Thank you xx

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SVAK

I’m sorry lovely, but there is still hope until your test date. I know it’s hard when you see a negative though. Sending you massive hugs 🤗 xxx

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Rach82 in reply to SVAK

Thanks sweet xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Rach. So sorry to hear this, but do check again on the correct day to be sure. Should this one have failed, give yourself a little break, then hopefully you can try again. Ask about taking low dose soluble aspirin or heparin injections next time, as they can help with good blood flow to womb lining, and help to prevent clotting. Good luck! Diane

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Rach82 in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you I'm a bit down but will soldier on xx

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Kiers27

Arwww I hope you do soldier on .. be kind to your self and will keep everything crossed for your test date, and if not for your next journey.

I’m early days injections .. and I’ve heard lots about the 2ww ... so so long. Xxx

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Rach82 in reply to Kiers27

Best of luck to you, the stims stage is physically the hardest bit. I'm definitely feeling the emotional side during this wait. Hope you get good results xxx

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Kiers27 in reply to Rach82

Thanks Rach ... I wish you luck too xx

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Core

Sorry to read this, not over till test date so will be hoping for a turnaround for you xx

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Rach82 in reply to Core

Thanks Core hoping for a miracle 🤞

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Millbanks

Sending lots of love, such a tough time but we’re all here with you xxx

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Rach82 in reply to Millbanks

Thank you so much xx

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