Hey ladies
I had another fail cycle I was wondering if I should try again. What do you all think? I was so sure that this one would have stick. So disappointing. I wishing very one who is going through the their 2ww or even a tranfer all the best of luck.
I do not have any answers really for you. My husband and I will go up to 3 rounds as most information says that this is the most effective. Everyone’s is different. If you have the money to keep trying then carry on but personally I would not get into debt for something that has no guarantee of working. You have to think about the financial and emotional pressure and how much you can take.
Thank you for the advice and I would definitely take it in to consideration. I am not putting myself in debt if I do it again. My concern is the emotional aspects of it.
It is definately one of the most testing things I’ve known. The worst bit is the heartache knowing some people seem to have no issues and we have to face this deeply unfair journey with no guarantee it will get better.
Ur so correct it's feel like after a fail tranfer u lose a piece of u. An yes ppl out dere just having babies and some of dem don't even want to baby. Infertility is one of the worst thing sumone could ever deal with.
We said after the first time failing we wouldn’t try again but here I am getting myself ready for cycle 2 . But this time this will be it. I need to start living life again x
I said the same thing after the first cycle too but we went back. I totally understand how u feel about taking ur life back because ivf can an will take over ur life. Between the birth control, scans an the medications ur whole year is taken over. Good luck on ur second cycle keep us updated on ur progress. Thank you for the advice.
Thank you Hun. This time we have taken abit more control. Even though it cost a lot we had the rest of the embryos tested for any abnormalities. Even though an embryo can be of a high grade it doesn’t mean it’s not abnormal. So every time you do a transfer It really is potluck. We have one normal embryo so we are seeing it as our last chance. I also had additional blood test which showed that my autoimmune system showed up something so I will be on steroids as well as blood taking injections on my down reg protocol. Started my buserlin injections and now waiting for my period. Feel a lot more relaxed and in control this time . Do keep us posted about what you decide to do xxxx
That great I pray that this one stickstick and u can see ur miracle in the next 8-10 months. We was considering doing PGS testing but our clinic advice me to do a immune system testing first but it has to be any time after 6 weeks from the fail tranfer. So I have 6 weeks to make up my mind. If u don't mind me asking how much was the test to see if the embryosmall is normal or abnormal?
I’m sorry your cycle wasn’t a success this time x
I think it’s such a personal decision, and each time brings a whole heap of heart ache. You have age on your side so maybe consider taking a little break? Build yourself back up, have fun, look after you for a bit and see how you feel in a few months.
Good luck with whatever you decide xx
Thank for the advice and I will try to take sum time to heal but it's so hard to do with the career I have. I am a teacher and is reminded each day that I am not able to have a child of my whole. It's really hard, but if we decide to do it again it won't be until next year June or July because that's my only long time off. Thank u once again.
Third IVF cycle, BFN…😭
Second ivf cycle and age 43 
2nd IVF cycle - BFN 😞
